OhioConfused Posted August 21, 2009 Posted August 21, 2009 I have been broken up with Ex GF for month and half. We havent talked on phone or anything since we broke it off. She sent me text message Monday saying her grandmother died so we exchanged few text messages mainly me telling her sorry for her loss and her saying thanks. I debated on what to do between flowers or card or nothing. I decided to send flowers just wondering everyones opinion if I should have sent nothing or did right thing. I have been so good with NC as best as I can always few fallbacks but im afraid now she will take this jestures as sign of weakness or me trying to get back with her. Now that she got them part of me feels like I shouldnt have done anything no matter how much I wanted to or how many people told I should. Makes me feel like she owns me really ****ty feeling. Here is orginal post about break up. http://www.loveshack.org/forums/t194507/
Tayla Posted August 21, 2009 Posted August 21, 2009 Etiquette would have suggested that flowers during mourning are appropriate. It holds no hidden meaning. It is a sign of respect for those grieving and the person lost. It holds no other meaning then above. Sounds like you were raised with proper respect for the living and the departed. No I didnt read your prior link.
disarm_1 Posted August 21, 2009 Posted August 21, 2009 i agree with tayla. it was a nice gesture and something common when someoen passes away. you didn't do it as a gesture of "i still love you' or "let's get back together". don't worry about it. it was a good thing you did
Author OhioConfused Posted August 21, 2009 Author Posted August 21, 2009 Thanks for quick replies. I was raised that way problem I think is her thinking will be that its ploy or has some other hidden meaning and that will drive me crazy.
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