sj9ers Posted August 21, 2009 Posted August 21, 2009 So long story short me and my ex dated for two months last summer then she dumped me. We tried to be friends after a month because she wanted to be, but I still wanted her back. New Years it all blew up when I was drunk and making out with a chick and then said a lot of stupid stuff about my ex to her best friend who told my ex. My ex called me out on it a few days later and it basically ended with her saying goodbye and have a nice life, and I haven't talked to her since then which was the beginning of January and I've been completely over it. Well last night it was late and I was on facebook and she messaged me out of nowhere and this is the convo Ex hi 12:50amBrian hey 12:51amEx how are you? 12:53amBrian good and u? 12:53amEx good. so i know the last time we had a "conversation" it wasnt the best we've had and i would like to say sorry soory for messing with you're head sorry for being a b**ch 12:59amBrian dont worry bout it i did some stupid stuff too 1:01amEx so everythings good? 1:01amBrian ya pretty much 1:02amEx kay,thanks Brian! 1:04amEx is there anything you'd like to get off you're chest?or ask? 1:08amBrian like wat? 1:08amEx idk. anything? 1:15amBrian well i really am sorry about wat happened on new years. i hope u kno that. i said a lot of really stupid stuff that i shouldnt have 1:18amEx yes you've stated that before.anything else? 1:23amBrian not really. other than how have u been sorta stuff 1:25amEx ok.. well then i guess everything has been cleared 1:27amBrian so um ya? u kno if u wanna ask me about somethin u can 1:28amEx no i have nothing. 1:30amEx kay well take care! goodnight! 1:30amBrian night So I'm still kind of wondering what she wanted. I always kinda wanted to clear the air with her and be friends (trust me I'm over it) because she really was a good person to talk to and I was wondering if her talking to me was just to say sorry and thats all or does she wanna open up communication again as friends? I was gonna message her on facebook and ask her why she messaged me out of the blue like that, or should I just leave things alone?
sickdog55 Posted August 21, 2009 Posted August 21, 2009 Go N/C if she really wants to get back with you she will tell you, you can't be friends with someone you still have feelings for, let her go and live your life to the fullest, just forget about her...
gavinus Posted August 21, 2009 Posted August 21, 2009 too be honest I think she contacted you because she felt bad about how it ended, you said it was ok...she has gotten what she wanted out of you, she was not interested in your life or you... and she has moved on. My ex did the same to me, dated me again after we split, it cleared the air...then dumped me again, and that was it. My advice move on as she already has
silic0ntoad Posted August 21, 2009 Posted August 21, 2009 too be honest I think she contacted you because she felt bad about how it ended, you said it was ok...she has gotten what she wanted out of you, she was not interested in your life or you... and she has moved on. My ex did the same to me, dated me again after we split, it cleared the air...then dumped me again, and that was it. My advice move on as she already has He stated he has moved on. In all honesty, seemed like she just wanted to clear the air.
Author sj9ers Posted August 21, 2009 Author Posted August 21, 2009 In all honesty, seemed like she just wanted to clear the air.But why? Is it because she wants us to start speaking to each other as friends again because I really wouldn't speaking to her as a friend again, but I don't want to push it if all she wanted to do was apologize and that's all.
silic0ntoad Posted August 21, 2009 Posted August 21, 2009 But why? Is it because she wants us to start speaking to each other as friends again because I really wouldn't speaking to her as a friend again, but I don't want to push it if all she wanted to do was apologize and that's all. She felt guilty for being a bitch. What else can I say? Honestly, if she wanted to be friends, she wouldn't have been a bitch to begin with. There may still be some animosity there. I wouldn't pursue the friendship, to be honest. I'd let it lay. No use digging up corpses.
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