Sam Spade Posted August 21, 2009 Posted August 21, 2009 I think that's just/mostly a cultural stereotype. There are gender differences in what's hot, but once girls get comfortable in a relationship, they want just to f.u.c.k. just as much . Cute .
Brady_to_Moss Posted August 21, 2009 Posted August 21, 2009 Its 50-50...i had a girl that would be horney 24/7 in college and just always talk and think about sex and she wasnt even a slut. This one girl i met online about 4 weeks ago..she txts me the dirtiest things! I cant believe how much she thinks about it and how kinky she is....true question..who is is more kinky? Girls or Guys?
Sam Spade Posted August 21, 2009 Posted August 21, 2009 Its 50-50...i had a girl that would be horney 24/7 in college and just always talk and think about sex and she wasnt even a slut. This one girl i met online about 4 weeks ago..she txts me the dirtiest things! I cant believe how much she thinks about it and how kinky she is....true question..who is is more kinky? Girls or Guys? That is easy! --> girls are waaaay kinkier than men . Most guys just care about getting off and the circumstances don't matter much. However, girls are capable of imagining some pretty crayzeee stuff :love:.
Hkizzle Posted August 21, 2009 Posted August 21, 2009 I felt like starting a thread on this topic. So, is it true, do you think men REALLY fantasize about sex more, or do women just as much? Lately, I find myself thinking about it quite a bit. I think being single makes it so much worse. What are your thoughts... I'll give you the most accurate answer I've heard a psychologist tell me. Are men taller than women? Everyone would say yes, yet the tallest women are taller than short men. It's only the average height of a man that's taller than the average height of women. In the same way some women have higher sex drives than men with low sex drives. But in general men have higher sex drives and think about sex more. It also depends on age. So a woman that's 30-35 will have the highest sex drive and a man above 50 will have a lower sex drive than an 18 year old.
CaliGuy Posted August 21, 2009 Posted August 21, 2009 Gorilla....so...Caliguy's avie made you think of sex? :love::love:
redhighheels Posted August 21, 2009 Posted August 21, 2009 I'm the polar opposite of you. The more I get it, the more I think about it. I hear ya sister! When I'm in a relationship and it's accessible whenever I want it, it's all I think about..and I do mean ALL I think about. The longer I go without, the less it crosses my mind. Thank God for threads like these, otherwise I wouldn't even know it exists anymore.
CaliGuy Posted August 21, 2009 Posted August 21, 2009 I'm the polar opposite of you. The more I get it, the more I think about it. I think for men it's the opposite. The less they get it the more they think about it. The more they get it, the less they think about it.
Hkizzle Posted August 21, 2009 Posted August 21, 2009 I hear ya sister! When I'm in a relationship and it's accessible whenever I want it, it's all I think about..and I do mean ALL I think about. The longer I go without, the less it crosses my mind. Thank God for threads like these, otherwise I wouldn't even know it exists anymore. Different hormones at work. What you and Cali guy say is absolutely true.
Yamaha Posted August 21, 2009 Posted August 21, 2009 Women want sex just as much as men, maybe even more.
GorillaTheater Posted August 21, 2009 Posted August 21, 2009 Gorilla....so...Caliguy's avie made you think of sex? I think it's the sunglasses.
001bh Posted August 21, 2009 Posted August 21, 2009 oh man why did I have to click on this post (couldn't resist but....) I've only been single for a while now but now I can't stop thinking about it. I used to think women didn't really think about as much as men did but I think that's just how bad the my ex's libido was compared to mine (once a week if i was lucky, more like every 10 days, drove me nutz) .......I suppose everyone's different?
SoulSearch_CO Posted August 21, 2009 Posted August 21, 2009 Gorilla....so...Caliguy's avie made you think of sex? :love::love: I think it's the sunglasses. Eh. It happens to the best of us. Mental note: Sunglasses get Gorilla hot.
laRubiaBonita Posted August 21, 2009 Posted August 21, 2009 women are taught that thinking sexual thoughts is wrong, bad, taboo..... i think it is generally viewed as "ok" for men to think of sex, actually it is almost seen as odd if a man does not have sexual thoughts. i bet more women think about sex than the ones that will admit it.
Hkizzle Posted August 21, 2009 Posted August 21, 2009 women are taught that thinking sexual thoughts is wrong, bad, taboo..... i think it is generally viewed as "ok" for men to think of sex, actually it is almost seen as odd if a man does not have sexual thoughts. i bet more women think about sex than the ones that will admit it. What is this the 1950's or some Mormon town? Women in the US is more liberal than anywhere I've been in the World besides Sweden, and a couple of other European countries. You could even say men and women are different, which they clearly are, and some women will flip out because of some weird feminist indoctrination. Women think about sex a lot, but men more so, and men think about way more random partners or else porn and prostitution wouldn't sell so well.
001bh Posted August 21, 2009 Posted August 21, 2009 too true....I studied in Vietnam for 3 months, lot of the guys in my group were expecting go-go bar scenes from ridiculous old war movies where the women were crazy for guys. Yeah nope. American girls are by far the most liberal and adventurous I've ever met. Don't even get me started.......
GorillaTheater Posted August 21, 2009 Posted August 21, 2009 Eh. It happens to the best of us. Mental note: Sunglasses get Gorilla hot. A bag of dryer lint gets me hot. I'm pretty easy.
Els Posted August 21, 2009 Posted August 21, 2009 I don't think there's necessarily any biological reason for women to 'think about' sex more than men, to be honest. There have been stipulations regarding a correlation between the amount of testosterone and sex drive, but then one could argue that if that were true, 'manly women', 'aggressive women' or simply women with more masculine traits should have a higher sex drive. So if sex drive were influenced by many possible biological factors and not just testosterone levels, that would mean that the old hypothesis of men being generally more sexually-driven just might not be true. I personally think it may be true to a slight degree, but the very great gap between how sexually-driven men and women in my country (conservative Asian) are is more due to societal influence than biology. Women are trained from a very young age that women who like sex are sluts, whores, don't deserve respect, etc... so when you've driven it into your head for years, you really DON'T think about sex because you're a 'proper lady'. Me? When I finally broke free of that hold and discovered what really turned me on, I thought about sex for a good portion of each day. I'm not sure how many pubescent boys could rival me, to be honest. It nearly drove me to addiction, I could spend hours a day fantasizing about sex. Fortunately I grew out of it after actually having had the chance to have the sort of sex I wanted, and am now a bit more normal. Edit: In my experience I actually did want sex (or sexual play, to be more exact) more than all of the partners I've been with. My current guy is the closest so far, about once or twice a day when we're together (we're LD so we don't have all the time in the world).
001bh Posted August 21, 2009 Posted August 21, 2009 So then the more we get, the less we worry about it? So I need to find someone with higher drive than me and then I'll be well adjusted
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