If theyre going to VEGAS without you and NOT being flirty ARE THEY JUST NOT THAT INTO

[Vet]

You're right. You got me. You know a lot more about prostitution than I do.........

 

I probably do actually, because I'm willing to investigate and research instead of making things up and proposing them to be fact.

[carhill]

Two reasons I would go to Vegas alone:

 

1. Golf

 

2. NASCAR/ NHRA/ SCCA

 

Look, the guy is turning off his Mac and leaving his workaholic habits. Whatever is in Vegas is more important than sex. He can get sex at home.

 

Guy #2 is just normal dating behavior when not into you, IMO.

[Hkizzle]

Whatever is in Vegas is more important than sex.

 

Well you're a decent guy.

 

But the true saying is "What happens in Vegas stays in Vegas" and it ain't golf balls.

[carhill]

I guess I've been there enough where it holds no mystery and magic. I could say the same thing about New York, Chicago, Los Angeles, Paris or Moscow, for that matter.

 

It's just a place with a big power bill

 

I assume it's well known that prostitution is illegal in the Las Vegas city proper....

[Hkizzle]

I guess I've been there enough where it holds no mystery and magic. I could say the same thing about New York, Chicago, Los Angeles, Paris or Moscow, for that matter.

 

It's just a place with a big power bill

 

I assume it's well known that prostitution is illegal in the Las Vegas city proper....

 

Of course. As it is in most places in the world for most of history. It still hasn't stopped prostitution from being the oldest professional in every country in the world.

 

Btw, Vet's numbers are wrong. I just can't be bothered to debate with him.

[Vet]

Of course. As it is in most places in the world for most of history. It still hasn't stopped prostitution from being the oldest professional in every country in the world.

 

Btw, Vet's numbers are wrong. I just can't be bothered to debate with him.

 

Both of our numbers are wrong, I'm just the only one that admitted to it. I guess you didn't understand or missed "I can make up numbers to prove my point too".

[Lyssa]

Oh it's still going on?

 

*moves along*

[Jilly Bean]

Nagini - I think the problem is that you are staying too long with guys who are lukewarm about you. If you are looking for something more substantial, then cut bait earlier, rather than let them string you along.

[Hkizzle]

Both of our numbers are wrong, I'm just the only one that admitted to it. I guess you didn't understand or missed "I can make up numbers to prove my point too".

 

You sir are way too sensitive. That's a character flaw, so get a grip.

 

I don't know you, I disagreed with you on one thread and you chased me around on 4 threads now. In fact I deliberately put your name in the last post to see if you'll respond, and you just can't help it. You can be baited like a fish, and that shows some sort of mental instability.

[Vet]

You sir are way too sensitive. That's a character flaw, so get a grip.

 

I don't know you, I disagreed with you on one thread and you chased me around on 4 threads now. In fact I deliberately put your name in the last post to see if you'll respond, and you just can't help it. You can be baited like a fish, and that shows some sort of mental instability.

 

I didn't realize that if you've posted in a thread already that somehow excludes other people from posting in a public forum. Paranoid persecution complexes are a mental disorder, by the way.

 

I'm pretty sure if I just keep feeding you the rope, you'll hang yourself with it.

[Hkizzle]

Oh it's still going on?

 

*moves along*

 

Yes, the nutcase is still going on.

 

I'm switching off too.

[carhill]

OP, let's say the roles were reversed here with guy #1. Let's say you were going to Vegas without him, say with a bunch of your girlfriends. Would you be doing anything 'bad' and, even if you were, would it really be any of his business at this point?

 

I'm in the middle of a property settlement and divorce, so I can appreciate a bit of his perspective. It sucks getting divorced in this economy and it sounds like he has a ton of assets to deal with, along with his businesses.

 

If he's interested in you, his actions will show it. IMO, it's way too soon for anything serious. The ink is hardly dry. Still a lot of emotions, even without the emotional attachment.

 

If you like him, date other people and give him some space and let him come to you. Forget about the Vegas thing. That's overthinking, IMO.

[butcher's hook]

I dunno, I'm with HKizzle here. I think a great number of single guys that go to Vegas go to get laid, whether they go to get professionals or not I can't say but those numbers kind of make sense.

 

A guy who goes to Vegas after "the nightmare of his divorce" is through, is going to throw cuation in the wind. Vegas exemplifies every single action that is anti marriage, anit commitment and thereofore pro divorce. People go to an all inclusive beach stay when they want r&r, or fishing or camping or whatever....you go to Vegas to party. Whatever that means to you is entirely up to you.

 

OP you are right to think what you are thinking. I would let him do his thing he just got out of a marriage let him play the field, men need to do that when they end long term relationships. Women are a lot better at transitioning into new relationships, men not so much.

[Pink Cupcakes]

The Vegas guy really isn't into her - he dropped her so quickly just because his ex was jealous then he hasn't seen the OP in a month, so even before the "Vegas" facebook posting, he was long out of the relationship.

[Nagini]

I'm confused because with the first guy you said you broke up "for a bit" and you haven't seen him in a month....so you did officially get back together and now he's off to Vegas and he can't even call to tell you this himself? Or are you still broken up or "taking a break"? A guy who was dating you would at least tell you he was going to Vegas for a few days instead of posting it on Facebook. I would write this guy off. I don't know - I don't think everyone goes to Vegas for sex.

 

Maybe the 2nd guy wants you to make a move yourself on him...for example, you could follow with "While I'm in your town for the interview, maybe we could go to a place you like together"

Maybe he was like "take care" because he was (albeit immaturely) hoping you'd ask to see him while you're there or even stay with him.

 

 

Guy 1 called last night. He is taking his son there. Who is 10.

I think I accidentally made him feel like a weirdo.

i asked him what is there for a little kid to do in vegas

he immediately got all enthused and said he is taking him to fao schwartz, see lights in front of bellagio (sp?), some shark reef at mandalay bay, some circus for kids and then stuff at the hotel he is staying at.

he said he only said his phone is off so riff raff wont bother him but of course he'll call me.

Now I just think its tres strange to take a kid there. but then again Im not a man, not a parent yet and never been to Vegas.

 

 

Guy 2 is still into me.

i just figured out he is kind of upset that my move was delayed (i was supposed to have moved in june) and that ive been distracted by work all summer.

he invited me to a concert half way between our mutual cities tonight (he asked me early today)

now he's sitting home pouting and sending me :Pand :* because i couldnt go...

 

anyway im back to working on friday night because i really do have to make bank.

u.s. economic recovery my sweet bum.

[Nagini]

Formula = (a) number of hookers working X (b) number of men they service in a day X © the average length of stay (2.5 days) / Number of single male visitors with no female friends or family to Vegas

 

Unless hookers are starving to death, you know simply by the number of men they service, what % of men pay for sex in vegas.

 

Whilst that doesn't show the certainty of this individual I am of course looking at whether he's a high risk group. Mr Leghumper.

 

 

Ooh I love stats and numbers.

Well he is staying for 2.5 days. So there you go.

[Nagini]

Yes, see I don't think a man would want to announce he was out seeking prostitutes to all his facebook contacts. To me I would take it as "leaving work behind"...doesn't mean sex necessarily. Maybe if he were 21 and trying to brag or something but not an adult mature man.

 

Yes in particular when its his mom, oldest friends and 3 business investors reading his facebook status. lol

[carhill]

OP, tons of stuff for kids now in Vegas. It's a true family destination. You should see the mini-vans in the rental car lots at McCarran (LAS).

 

I think people who haven't been there or have only seen a bit of Vegas tend to view it in the stereotypical view of decades gone by. Surely, that, and the underbelly, is still there, but it's largely hidden from view now.

[Nagini]

OP, tons of stuff for kids now in Vegas. It's a true family destination. You should see the mini-vans in the rental car lots at McCarran (LAS).

 

I think people who haven't been there or have only seen a bit of Vegas tend to view it in the stereotypical view of decades gone by. Surely, that, and the underbelly, is still there, but it's largely hidden from view now.

 

Thanks. The fact that he gave me the name of his hotel is reassuring too.

On phone with guy 2 right now.

He's calling me to tell me what he cooked himself for dinner.... hmmmm

[Pink Cupcakes]

Now you have another problem. You're dating two men and at one point will have to choose one over the other.

[Nagini]

they both called

my head hurts now

im not getting work done

[carhill]

I think we're down to one guy now

[Nagini]

I think we're down to one guy now

 

ldr guy seems to want me the most, but i think he is used to busy women.

his mom was ceo of a top company.

i think he actually wants a chick who directs everything.

anyway,

 

i really am PREOCCUPIED with work and making money right now.

crazy big bills await.

 

Im sitting here wondering about the ad placement on loveshack

the pull down ads get accidentally clicked a lot.

i want that for my new site !

who serves the ads here ?

[carhill]

who serves the ads here ?

 

No clue. I don't see any ads

 

It's easy to be too busy for a relationship. In that case, better not to dabble. Takes your focus away from business, not to mention doesn't give adequate perspective and attention to someone else who makes the time for a relationship a priority. To me, this is an important part of compatibility.

[Hkizzle]

Guy 1 called last night. He is taking his son there. Who is 10.

I think I accidentally made him feel like a weirdo.

i asked him what is there for a little kid to do in vegas

he immediately got all enthused and said he is taking him to fao schwartz, see lights in front of bellagio (sp?), some shark reef at mandalay bay, some circus for kids and then stuff at the hotel he is staying at.

he said he only said his phone is off so riff raff wont bother him but of course he'll call me.

Now I just think its tres strange to take a kid there. but then again Im not a man, not a parent yet and never been to Vegas.

 

 

Guy 2 is still into me.

i just figured out he is kind of upset that my move was delayed (i was supposed to have moved in june) and that ive been distracted by work all summer.

he invited me to a concert half way between our mutual cities tonight (he asked me early today)

now he's sitting home pouting and sending me :Pand :* because i couldnt go...

 

anyway im back to working on friday night because i really do have to make bank.

u.s. economic recovery my sweet bum.

 

Well there you go he's taking his son.

 

I did say if a single man goes by himself. With no attachments. Vegas is also known as a family destination, there's plenty for families to do.

 

But single men...........hmm