sickdog55 Posted August 20, 2009 Posted August 20, 2009 Hey guys, Well me and my girl were together for just over a year, she was 17 and i was 23, i loved her dearly , We've been broken up for a few months now, she pretty much already had a new boyfriend to go to by the time we broke up and hes only a schoolboy too ....anyway we kept contact for a while after the break up, because she still wanted to be friends, i did everything for this girl by the way... pretty much spoiled her...anyway latley i found out that her boyfriend moved in with her and her parents... that was the last straw, i told her i couldnt be friends anymore and told her that what i wanted was a relationship not friends, and told her to leave me alone and let go.....and been N/C since, she hasnt texted me in a week now, so i think im finally starting to heal and move on....the last text i got from her was a week ago saying, "why cant you just accept me as a friend and nothing else, we needed time apart or see other people,i said we can still be friends" ..... She was pretty persistent on being friends by the way, but i know she is going to text me again someday, Can anyone understand what the hell she is doing to me or whats going on in her head and what i should do.... i been no contact for a while now
john1988 Posted August 20, 2009 Posted August 20, 2009 I don't know what to say to you other than move on my man, she clearly is trying to be friends to keep you on the backburner, she will love the fact she has 2 guys fighting over her, sounds like the age gap I had with my ex, not a good idea, this guy is going to get chucked soon aswell. It's crazy trying to pin someone down at that age it will never work. Stick to NC if she gets in touch just be civil.
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