Azza1985 Posted August 20, 2009 Posted August 20, 2009 Well i have begun my strict no contact period and today being day 3 is by far the hardest, though I'm not going to break. I have been in a bit of a mess today, missing what was, longing for what is no more. Ultimately this led me to open the box of keep sakes, to try and vent some of my emotion with out contacting her. The box contained every letter we have written each other and i discovered for every letter proclaiming how wonderful things were there were two describing what i was doing wrong. This was a major problem i had with my ex it seemed everything that i did to improve myself for her was met 6 months later with yet another reason why i am doing it wrong. In the end it came down to me failing to propose to her and in conversations had over the last 6 weeks she claims that she wouldn't be doing what she is doing now if i had popped the question. I don't plan to breaking NC but i could really use some words of comfort to help me through the withdrawal process its been a rough day. Azza
sickdog55 Posted August 20, 2009 Posted August 20, 2009 Stay strong brother you will get through this, Stay N/C and try not to think about her, the pain fades day by day trust me, Keep busy try and socialize with others i can't stress on that enough But deff stay no contact.... thank yourself lucky that your ex dont live in the next street with a new boyfriend already like my ex.... Stay strong you will get through this
Author Azza1985 Posted August 20, 2009 Author Posted August 20, 2009 Thanks sickdog, just read your story, heh they always want to be friends don't they, sorry to hear about your situation must be tough at least my ex lives 20mins away but its a small town here so i'm constantly looking over my shoulder for her, i dread the day i bump into her down the street.
bella16 Posted August 20, 2009 Posted August 20, 2009 Keep up the great work. Some will tell you not to count the days of NC... but I think it helps you keep NC going to be honest. Today will be Day 9 of NC for me. I am living my life... working, kickboxing, and being with friends and family. I have a trip to disney world in a few months, so I have that to really look forward to! When you least expect it, something great will come along...
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