b3nx Posted August 20, 2009 Posted August 20, 2009 Hey all, i been with my gf a while now. We have an amazing relationship. She tells me everytime I am with her that she wants to spend her life with me and she has never been so in love. Obviously this is secure for me but I have been working long hours we are both still at uni and I kind of feel I am not as bubbly as I used to be. I met her while I was on annual leave so I was never tired. Of course she understands but why am I insecure because of it? We are getting so close and comfortable why am I starting to think too much Noe it was more fun before when I Dent worry
infjer Posted August 20, 2009 Posted August 20, 2009 in my experience, relationships have these phases. i've been that way, my boyfriend has been that way... it's just life and it sounds like your girl understands. you're worried because she hasn't seen this side of you before and you're afraid she'll run for the hills. unless you're never happy, then i can't see that being an issue. and if she's wanting to spend the rest of her life with you... then she's going to see ALL sides of you! in my personal experience, when the guy lets down his guard a little more it makes us closer in the long run. he's not afraid to be pissed off, stressed or upset in front of me. just try to relax, let her know how you're feeling and be grateful you are in such a good relationship.
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