Heart Broken

[sickdog55]

Hey guys, Well me and my girl were together for just over a year, she was 17 and i was 23, i loved her dearly , We've been broken up for a few months now, she pretty much already had a new boyfriend to go to by the time we broke up and hes only a schoolboy too ....anyway we kept contact for a while after the break up, because she still wanted to be friends, i did everything for this girl by the way... pretty much spoiled her...anyway latley i found out that her boyfriend moved in with her and her parents... that was the last straw, i told her i couldnt be friends anymore and told her that what i wanted was a relationship not friends, and told her to leave me alone and let go.....and been N/C since, she hasnt texted me in a week now, so i think im finally starting to heal and move on....the last text i got from her was a week ago saying, "why cant you just accept me as a friend and nothing else, we needed time apart or see other people,i said we can still be friends" ..... She was pretty persistent on being friends by the way, but i know she is going to text me again someday,

Can anyone understand what the hell she is doing to me or whats going on in her head and what i should do.... i been no contact for a while now

[NopeNah]

Stay NC! She's living with another guy...there's nothing to discuss! Time to move on. I'd also suggest finding a girl over the age of 21 next time. 17 in my opinion is still a child that doesn't know what they want out of life. Not that a 21+ is that much diferent!

[sickdog55]

Yeah i intend to never contact her again, at first i thought by ignoring her she might miss me, but now i realise that i have to move on and forget about her for my own sakes, im not going to hang on and hope she calls me one day, nothing would change if i got back with that girl one day, she would probably do the same thing over and over again.

N/C is the best way peoples.... Stay strong