Hannah86 Posted August 20, 2009 Posted August 20, 2009 Hello all! So I am finding it much easier to get over my ex since I am under someone else now... Anyway, my new guy is absolutely wonderful. He is doting, kind, imperfect in the same ways I am, we're both left-handed, quirky...it's like a match made in heaven. He is also a total gentleman at times, then dramatic and exciting the next. Totally head over heels, inching from lust to love phase. He acts very boyfriendy and comfortable around me, to a point where I am not worried about him straying or even having 'the conversation' because I feel comfortable with him, and no need to pressure it to be anything more or less. However... After our long talks, I found out he has an ex girlfriend of 8 years! Bits of high school, all through college, post-college for a few years...and they've been broken up for two years. Apparently they are "best friends" but she never writes on his wall or calls him or anthing. I also feel like we look exactly alike. Same hair, smile, face shape, bodies...it's crazy. We even had the same major, minor, AND job (I googled her and found her resume--that's about all the dirt I can get on her but surely our personalities are a lot alike too...) Should I be worried that I am a filler until he and this girl get back together?
SoulSearch_CO Posted August 20, 2009 Posted August 20, 2009 They've been broken up for two years and she never contacts him. I don't get what you're worried about. What can be said? The guy has good taste. Just go with the flow and quit worrying about his past. Leave it where it belongs - IN THE PAST.
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