kansanprincess Posted August 20, 2009 Posted August 20, 2009 I have known this guy for 10+ years. We dated briefly in high school but nothing serious. We went our separate ways (he went into the millitary & I went on to college). We lost touch (other than an occasional facebook/myspace encounter) until about a year ago. Completely out of the blue one day, I received a text message from him asking what I was up to and how I was doing. Our conversations continued via text messages for several months until he returned to the States (he was stationed overseas for the last 4 years). When he got back to the states (still 1,000 miles from me though) he would occasionally call me but the texting continued as well. The texts however would sometimes turn into a heated/dirty texts about what he wanted when he got back home (our hometown). This went on for several months as well as random, "how r u" type of texts too. He is now home for good and we have seen each other twice, both times he came to my house and the last time he was here, he stayed the night. He seems to wait a week or so in between our "encounters" before he will call me and/or initiate a conversation. I have asked him to come out a couple of times with me and a few mutual friends. Both times he said he would love to but he already had plans and/or was getting up early the next day (5am for work) and didn't want to go out. I guess what I am getting at is that it seems like he put a whole lot of effort and energy into contacting me before he came home and now that he has been here a few months and we have been together he seems to be losing interest. Am I crazy or is he just "playing the game" and waiting to call me because that's what the "rules" say? Or is he "just not that into me?" He is, and always has been, an extremely shy & quiet person. And based on the last experience we had, it is apparent that he isn't "well versed" in the bedroom so I don't fear that he is sleeping with someone else. I don't know what to think or do, if anything. Any suggestions?
Lucky_One Posted August 20, 2009 Posted August 20, 2009 So you have slept with him on the two times that you got together, after not seeing him for 10 years? I would say that he just isn't that into you. When a guy has been chatting a girl up for months, he doesn't quit if he really wants to date her. I think you have officially moved into a FB relationship.
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