bluewolf17 Posted August 20, 2009 Posted August 20, 2009 So I have been single for about 6 months and recently have really missed dating someone..having someone to go do fun things with..etc. I have this guy at the gym who has asked me out a few times..he's nice, and really funny..but not really my type looks wise. As odd as it seems, (or maybe not that odd) I like short men. He's over 6'2. Has lots of tattoos, and has that cage fighter/douchebag look going. While I should be flattered because he is very fit, I just am not really into that. I'm a cute girl (I think) and part of me feels I should be flattered, considering how fit he is..and well, I'm not. Though I am trying to get down to a slimmer weight. I'm getting off base here..he keeps asking me out, and when I say no, or your not my type, he asks why.. and says stupid things like "I am every girls type". Wrong~! What's the best blow off without being a total b#%ch! He's at the gym all the time, and I am too.
caramel c Posted August 20, 2009 Posted August 20, 2009 Well, you already told him no. You don't need to come up with new ways to say no. He is still asking you out? Are you sure you made it clear? If he keeps asking, you can say thank you but I'm still not interested.
kizik Posted August 20, 2009 Posted August 20, 2009 I like short men. :love: he keeps asking me out, and when I say no, or your not my type, he asks why.. and says stupid things like "I am every girls type". Wrong~! What's the best blow off without being a total b#%ch! He's at the gym all the time, and I am too. Honestly I think you need to put him on Real Life Ignore. Don't even respond to creepo anymore.
Vet Posted August 20, 2009 Posted August 20, 2009 So I have been single for about 6 months and recently have really missed dating someone..having someone to go do fun things with..etc. I have this guy at the gym who has asked me out a few times..he's nice, and really funny..but not really my type looks wise. As odd as it seems, (or maybe not that odd) I like short men. He's over 6'2. Has lots of tattoos, and has that cage fighter/douchebag look going. While I should be flattered because he is very fit, I just am not really into that. I'm a cute girl (I think) and part of me feels I should be flattered, considering how fit he is..and well, I'm not. Though I am trying to get down to a slimmer weight. I'm getting off base here..he keeps asking me out, and when I say no, or your not my type, he asks why.. and says stupid things like "I am every girls type". Wrong~! What's the best blow off without being a total b#%ch! He's at the gym all the time, and I am too. Sometimes if guys don't get the hint, you need to be a total bitch to get your point across. Something like saying, "NO, I SAID I WON'T GO OUT WITH YOU" loudly enough so that everyone in the gym hears. He'll get the point.
Author bluewolf17 Posted August 20, 2009 Author Posted August 20, 2009 bitch mode it is! I hope he is there tonight peacocking around.
MadDriver Posted August 20, 2009 Posted August 20, 2009 Something like saying, "NO, I SAID I WON'T GO OUT WITH YOU" loudly enough so that everyone in the gym hears. Speaking from personal experience there, Vet? Maybe that's why you're so traumatized today? :lmao: :lmao:
CarrieT Posted August 20, 2009 Posted August 20, 2009 I don't get it -- you say you miss doing things with someone and this guy is funny and nice... Maybe there is more than you limiting yourself on physical attraction?
Author bluewolf17 Posted August 20, 2009 Author Posted August 20, 2009 Carrie, Of course there is more than looks. But him not being my type doesn't start and end at appearences. It's just the first thing you notice. The second (for me) is their warmth. If that makes sense. His vibe is all wrong. On a funny note, he was at the gym tonight, and he did come over to talk..and I just pointed to my ipod I had in, and made the finger motion like I couldn't hear him. He got the hint.
Vet Posted August 20, 2009 Posted August 20, 2009 Speaking from personal experience there, Vet? Maybe that's why you're so traumatized today? :lmao: :lmao: I'm speaking from my personal experience in that I've actually known women, and they've had all sorts of stories to tell just like this.
Soul Bear Posted August 20, 2009 Posted August 20, 2009 Tell him if he can do 50 freestanding handstand pushups without the support of the wall, without stopping, right there on the spot, you will allow him to take you out.... I guarantee he will be unable to! And you could have the last laugh and make him feel pathetic without having to insult him.
Gemini09 Posted August 20, 2009 Posted August 20, 2009 I'm getting off base here..he keeps asking me out, and when I say no, or your not my type, he asks why.. and says stupid things like "I am every girls type". Wrong~! What's the best blow off without being a total b#%ch! He's at the gym all the time, and I am too. Any guy who says "i'm every girls type"...
Author bluewolf17 Posted August 20, 2009 Author Posted August 20, 2009 Any guy who says "i'm every girls type"... I know..he is basically saying "what the heck is wrong with you? ".
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