aboynamedmike Posted August 19, 2009 Posted August 19, 2009 So I'm the dumpee and being so I have no interest in keeping contact with my ex. But she has continued to keep texting me/calling me despite me telling her to stop. I would answer her texts sometimes and picked up once or twice but yesterday was her bday....i went out of my way to wish her a happy bday thru text message. I got a text from her a little before midnight saying,"Wow. I'm so glad you remembered my birthday." I was confused and apparently she never got my message. She was pissed? I told her its not my fault she didn't get the message and she claims that she knows I dont owe her anything, yet she still got upset when I apparently didn't acknowledge her bday.... THEN..she calls me during my lunch break and begins talking to me like everything is OK.("Oh hey..i'm on my way to work now...blah blah blah") This girl brings out the worse in me and I need to get rid of her. The only problem is we both go to the same college, hang out with the same group, and it's inevitable that i'll see her around. I mean, I would try and be friends with her, but she started talking/hanging out with the guy she cheated on me with, and I just lost all interest in trying to keep any kind of contact with her. Maybe I'll calm down and end up not caring what she is doing, but right now I want her OUT OF MY LIFE! Am I overreacting or what? Sorry, I'm really upset today:(...any input would be great.
digitalwizard Posted August 19, 2009 Posted August 19, 2009 A bit strange, I'd say. She cheated on you. She makes you miserable. Stop answering your phone when she calls. Stop texting her....or re-texting her. Pretend she's not there. If you truly want her out of your life, that's what you should do. Since you go to the same college, I guess you are gonna' see each other from time to time. Just be as 'neutral' as possible when that happens. Good luck. -Wiz
NopeNah Posted August 20, 2009 Posted August 20, 2009 So I'm the dumpee and being so I have no interest in keeping contact with my ex. Sounds to me for someone who has 'no' interest you stay in quiet the bit of contact. You have to stop answering and responding to texts.
Author aboynamedmike Posted August 20, 2009 Author Posted August 20, 2009 Yea man I know...I cave sometimes because I feel bad..I know I shouldn't though. I mean, I can't make myself miserable to make her feel better about herself. I just gotta man up and tell her how it is. **** I hate this.
CaliGuy Posted August 20, 2009 Posted August 20, 2009 Agree with P4D. For someone who has no interest in his ex, you sure you talk to her a lot and now you're on LS talking about her. If she cheated on you, she should be getting ZERO of your time. Zip, zilch, nada. She can't make you miserable if you don't let her.
BackonTrack2 Posted August 20, 2009 Posted August 20, 2009 Your ex girlfriend (the whore) still has feelings for you... Your that guy she can talk to about stuff with but not that guy she fantasizes having sex with... Your like the friend guy that she had sex with in her past (even if it was 1 hour, 2 seconds or 1 year ago) And to top it off... She's banging another dude and has his cock in her mouth........ And she has the nerve to call you and act like nothing happen........
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