HuniBunz09 Posted August 19, 2009 Posted August 19, 2009 My ex and I were dating for almost a year. I was head over heels for him and I thought he was as well. We had our ups and downs. Long story short, he broke up with me over a text after everything I’ve done for him. I mean I showed more love and care than I thought I was capable of. I tried to at least end it on good note, but he refused. For 3 weeks I cried, lost drastic amount of weight, felt miserable and hurt. It's been a month since he broke us up and hasn't tried to reach me not that I expected him to (at heart I did hope for it, but in mind I knew he wouldn't). I didn't reach him either because the night before the break up he insulted me or never apologized for it. I'll explain how he insulted me, we were both upset at each other, and as many may know make up sex most times makes you forget the stupid fights. We had sex, and he wasn't into me (we were both mad at each other). I said to him “You’re really not into sex tonight are you?" he said” Oh I’m into sex, I’m just not into you tonight" (that’s after the whole week of I love you's and I miss you's). Okay, that's hurtful and insulting, and I don't wish to involve myself into sexual activity neither with him nor with anyone anytime soon. Today, a month of no contact (even though we live across the street from each other), I get a text early in the morning (not so sound conceited, but I am very attractive physically but then again so is he)... “How bout some casual sex". 1st thing I though is which one of my friends is playing a prank on me, when I realized it's his number (I deleted it when we broke up). I was stunned and after 5 minutes I started laughing hysterically. All I though was how low are his standards. I replied with “How about you loose this number". I didn't expect a response then again maybe I did, because I did receive one which said " Ooops sorry I was sending this message to my boy Eddie my bad. Oh and I will delete it. Have a happy life goodbye"... That's word for word. Now, I know this person very well. It's early in the morning and he probably caught a boner; Eddie is a name I’ve never heard; and the last sentence HAVE A HAPPY LIFE GOODBYE, why is he saying that to me again, he's said it a month ago multiple times. Can someone please explain to me what is going through this sad persons mind? Is that how low he views me? I've never given him a reason to look down on me. It's funny and really sad at the same time.
john1988 Posted August 19, 2009 Posted August 19, 2009 I'm afraid so he obviously has no respect for you this is echoed by the cowardly text message also. Cut him completely loose, last thing you want to do is feed his ego.
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