BCCA Posted August 19, 2009 Posted August 19, 2009 So, I'm sure most of you remember my last post regarding the girl I see on the way to work that was supposed to get lunch with me, and never responded to my call/text (one of each). I was going out Monday, and thought I would throw a 'Im going here, you should come' text out to a few people, including her. No response, not that I expected one, and so then I just deleted her number all together. Yesterday, I get a 'Im really sorry for not getting back to you, my phone has been having a lot of issues lately'. Im thinking to myself, this could be partially true, but I honestly doubt it. Either way, what the heck, so I responded back, and this is pretty much the exchange: Me: you missed out last night, I had so much fun! whats new, I think Im free for lunch thurs day, but let me know. her: aww, well im glad you enjoyed yourself. hmmm...well I cant do thurs, but next week for sure! me: next week could work, let me know when youre free, and we can figure something out her: k sounds good I really dont know what to think, but I figured it couldnt hurt to give it a shot. Worst case, I dont hear from her again, and Im in the same boat I am now. I am curious what made her decide to text, but Ill never know for sure, so its pointless to worry about it. Any thoughts on this? anyone have something like this happen before?
PhantomSunrise Posted August 19, 2009 Posted August 19, 2009 Is this some random girl, or your ex? If it's an ex, you CAN lose more by talking to her and being blown off. Because you'll get sent back to where you started, if not worse. If it's some random girl, then there you go. Nothing to lose. Good luck
dreamergrl Posted August 19, 2009 Posted August 19, 2009 I don't think she's worth much more effort BCCA. I wouldn't respond to her anymore unless she has a concrete date of when she's free, which I don't think is going to happen
Author BCCA Posted August 19, 2009 Author Posted August 19, 2009 Is this some random girl, or your ex? I would rather drink a bottle of Drano than talk to my ex. If it's some random girl, then there you go. Nothing to lose. Good luck Kind of what I thought as well. Probably flaky, but worth a shot. I don't think she's worth much more effort BCCA. I wouldn't respond to her anymore unless she has a concrete date of when she's free, which I don't think is going to happen Im not putting any more effort in at all. The ball is in her court, she either does something with it or she doesnt. Either way, no real loss for me here.
Lyssa Posted August 19, 2009 Posted August 19, 2009 I don't think she's worth much more effort BCCA. I wouldn't respond to her anymore unless she has a concrete date of when she's free, which I don't think is going to happen Yeah, I'd just let it go until she gets back with a date. In the mean time, go out and get to know more girls!
Author BCCA Posted August 19, 2009 Author Posted August 19, 2009 Yeah, I'd just let it go until she gets back with a date. In the mean time, go out and get to know more girls! Thats the plan. I give it about a 10% chance she texts me again, so Im not putting much stock in that. Like I said, there was essentially nothing to lose, and at least she texted me at all, so I dont have to avoid her or feel awkward if we run into each other again. Just so were all clear, I do NOT expect her to get back to me.
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