Quinch Posted August 19, 2009 Posted August 19, 2009 Sometimes I find myself in an awkward situation where I invite a friend for a drink or to the cinema but then they in turn invite one of their other friends that I don't like. I don't feel I can tell my friend not to invite them without appearing rude but I know its going to put a downer on the whole thing and I start to dread going instead of looking forward to it. Sometimes I even start making up lies to get out of going at all Does anyone else have this problem or is it just me, and what am I supposed to do about it?
alphamale Posted August 19, 2009 Posted August 19, 2009 Sometimes I find myself in an awkward situation where I invite a friend for a drink or to the cinema but then they in turn invite one of their other friends that I don't like. I don't feel I can tell my friend not to invite them without appearing rude but I know its going to put a downer on the whole thing and I start to dread going instead of looking forward to it. Sometimes I even start making up lies to get out of going at all Does anyone else have this problem or is it just me, and what am I supposed to do about it? just tell your friend you'd like to spend time with them alone
Lyssa Posted August 19, 2009 Posted August 19, 2009 Does anyone else have this problem or is it just me, and what am I supposed to do about it? Argh yes! I hate when that happens. Like you, I'd find a way to get out of it in the end but I did a couple of times, told them in advance that I'd just like to spend my free time with them and not anyone else (outside the clique).
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