Omega3 Posted August 19, 2009 Posted August 19, 2009 If you just got out of a 2 year relationship (you were the dumper) and you had an attractive girl that with no real noticable baggage hitting on you. Would you go for it? Or would you stay single for awhile and not be concerned with her? Personally, I'd probably try to date her. If she's a real catch, I'd try even after just getting out of a relationship. Just curious if others would.
SoulSearch_CO Posted August 19, 2009 Posted August 19, 2009 It depends on where you are at emotionally after the dumping. If your feelings are completely gone for the ex, then yeah, I say go for it. I really only feel it's fair if you're 100% emotionally available to said new conquest.
Author Omega3 Posted August 19, 2009 Author Posted August 19, 2009 It depends on where you are at emotionally after the dumping. If your feelings are completely gone for the ex, then yeah, I say go for it. I really only feel it's fair if you're 100% emotionally available to said new conquest. I agree it would only be fair to the new person if you were truly over your ex, but how often do we really do that? It's easy to say you'd do that, but if you really want to be with the new person, I'm not sure I'd wait.
Odyssey Posted August 19, 2009 Posted August 19, 2009 If you're truly over your ex. Then hell yeah, go for it - take it slow though... (By posting here it seems like you're not so sure about your ex)?
Thaddeus Posted August 19, 2009 Posted August 19, 2009 If you're truly over your ex. Then hell yeah, go for it - take it slow though...By all means, if you're healed from your last relationship, go for it. But I don't see any need to 'take it slow.' Do what feels right for you. Could be slow, could be fast. Whatever works for your situation.
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