Lucky555 Posted August 19, 2009 Posted August 19, 2009 why would a guy who i recently "gave up" on ,contact me via online. I have to block his screen name but i didn't think he would even bother to talk to me since he didn't seem interested. (i know him in person) So here it is, I think he saw a message on my facebook (i know) that i was going somewhere. He was curious enough to ask me what i did during my weekend. (all of the time that i have known him he never asks this question) I changed the subject because i feel like doesn't have a right to know and I dont want him in my life. i didn't tell him i didn't want him in my life but i just avoided what he was asking. HE GOT MAD. He then started "opening up" and talking all this stuff (like his family, his personal stuff) and on how we should get to know eachother. WHAT? I know this is childish maybe but he has been the one to "string me along" which isn't happening anymore because i refuse to talk to him or even listen to him without it going further. I'm not looking for the backseat here! I just want to understand the mindset of what he is trying to do so I can watch out for this stuff in the future. SO WHY DOES HE EVEN BOTHER! why get mad at me when he is the one that is not acting like hes that interested. What i think..he maybe trying to manipulate me, he knows he has not opened up about his personal life and its like throwing me something in hopes that i stay interested.
Odyssey Posted August 19, 2009 Posted August 19, 2009 Mindset? He wanted to gauge your feelings (you know his motivations more than me) by asking what you were doing. When you avoided the issue, he took it that you didn't want to. So he felt rejected & hurt. Then tried to recover from the awkwardness (though unsuccessfully) by quickly ranting about other stuff. Getting mad like that was immature or short-tempered though.
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