lordWilhelm Posted August 19, 2009 Posted August 19, 2009 I'm looking for advice on how to bring up having sex for the first time with my g/f. We've been dating for seven months, and well I'm glad we didn't hurry. But now I would like to go further. My feeling is that I should talk to her about it -- rather than pushing things beyond just making out, if only because we should consider birth control methods. But I'm not sure how to bring this up
Hkizzle Posted August 19, 2009 Posted August 19, 2009 Unless a girl is very young or inexperienced you don't need to bring it up. Generally if a girl is comfortable with you ,and you turn a girl on sufficiently, including rubbing her between the legs, taking her clothes off if hardly a problem. Take some condoms, she's not going to say no to you wearing protection.
Author lordWilhelm Posted August 19, 2009 Author Posted August 19, 2009 Yeah we have been making out all right... but she seemed a bit defensive when I tried to turn more sexual and I wasn't comfortable pushing her. We're both 23, and this would be the first time for both of us.
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