honeybee22 Posted August 19, 2009 Posted August 19, 2009 i have been divorce for a year now and doing ok. i recently starting seeing someone hes seems nice, but everyone seems to like him more than i do. i always seem to just be ok with him. dont get me wrong i like him but i just not feeling the way i did with my ex. i know i shouldnt compare but he wants to get serious is it normal to feel this way or should i call and quits before he gets more attaached ?
gavinus Posted August 19, 2009 Posted August 19, 2009 My advice is let him go. If you do stay with him how will you know if you actually miss him? Do you want to be thinking of your ex all the time while you are with someone new? You need time out for you to: a) see if you miss this new guy and b) see if you are ready to date, best wishes
Beeotch Posted August 19, 2009 Posted August 19, 2009 It's normal....I suggest you not force it. Perhaps you should wait for the guy that does not have you comparing him to your ex. I mean it is natural to do it a little but you should only be dating a guy who you are more happy with him and thoughts of your ex have no time to surface. My ex bf was that guy for me...before him, I compared all others to my ex and they did not match up. But with him...I did the initial comparison once and he was on his level and more in many respects and then that was that. I never thought about my ex again and he has now become the new standard (relatively, minus certain flaws).
Recommended Posts