Lost2009 Posted August 18, 2009 Posted August 18, 2009 Me and my girlfriend of what would of been 2 years together in September broke up just over 2 weeks ago. I decided to end the relationship, and it was quite a rash decision and this isn't the first time its happened (probably about 2 or 3 times before over the period we were together). The reason I did it was because I felt as if we were going through a rough patch and I just acted upon it very quickly , we hadnt had sex for months and I feel as though somehow we drifted apart and things werent what they used to be. I think i also felt pressured also by what would happen to us when we both finished university, whats the next logical step? get a house together?, engaged? etc, and that scares me. Another problem in the relationship was that she didn't seem to like me going out partying without her and would often go in moods and we'd argue because I hadn't text her enough times when i was out etc (i dont know if this was in my head:S). But now 2 weeks later it has hit me like a bullet train, the feeling that shes gone. I can't think of anything better than driving to see her and telling her I love her and that everything is going to be OK. I havent had any contact with her except a couple of emails she sent and i responded to, she was confused about why we broke up. But now on her facebook status's etc ( i know its petty but i cant help looking at her profile) its like shes forgotten about me and shes over it. I really don't know what to do? I don't want to say I love her and miss her if i'm not going to get back together with her. But then again I dont want to leave it too long and she finds someone else and I've missed my chance. Any sort of advice would be greatly appreciated as I cannot think about anything else at the moment...
Funky Posted August 18, 2009 Posted August 18, 2009 I think you need to sit down and figure out if this is the person you want to spend the rest of your life with, well to me that's what a relationship is and if you want to get back together it's not just for a few weeks it's for the long haul. You need to be honest with yourself and lay out the pros and cons of this person, does the good out way the bad or vice versa? If my ex would come back to me after 2 weeks I'd be extatic. But my situation is way more complicated then yours...
Author Lost2009 Posted August 18, 2009 Author Posted August 18, 2009 I just think, why am I feeling this way if I don't want to be with her? Is there something there? I just can't stop thinking about her, I was fine for 2 weeks and now it seems to of kicked in out of nowhere, this longing to be with her and to see her.
Funky Posted August 18, 2009 Posted August 18, 2009 do you miss the affection that she gave you or do you miss her person? I know I've asked myself that question to try and make sure what my feelings are...
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