TragicallyHip Posted August 18, 2009 Posted August 18, 2009 I met a girl just over a month ago and she made it very very obvious that she was into me, but I didn't take "advantage" of the situation at the time... Now I am trying to start something with her, but it seems like she's unsure this time. Her friend told me she is still very interested in me... But I'm not sure how to play this... do I just sit back and wait for her to start calling or texting me... or am I going to miss out doing that??
kizik Posted August 18, 2009 Posted August 18, 2009 I met a girl just over a month ago and she made it very very obvious that she was into me, but I didn't take "advantage" of the situation at the time... Now I am trying to start something with her, but it seems like she's unsure this time. You had your chance. You hurt her pride. You're not going to be able to start anything with her now.
loveslife Posted August 18, 2009 Posted August 18, 2009 Do things differently now than you did them before. This would show her that it's different now, that you're interested. So, instead of waiting for her to pursue you or show her interest again (she got burned last time after all), this time you go after her. Haha but don't be creepy or a stalker.
my body is a cage Posted August 18, 2009 Posted August 18, 2009 Do things differently now than you did them before. This would show her that it's different now, that you're interested. So, instead of waiting for her to pursue you or show her interest again (she got burned last time after all), this time you go after her. Haha but don't be creepy or a stalker. i'd second this. i doubt she lost all interest, especially if her friends say she is very interested. however its your turn to be assertive now, and show her youre interested. girls like that.
BobSacamento Posted August 18, 2009 Posted August 18, 2009 Ok so you rejected her and now you want her back. Not only that you want HER to call you. She'd be better off with you not calling. She deserves better.
MadDriver Posted August 18, 2009 Posted August 18, 2009 do I just sit back and wait for her to start calling or texting me... or am I going to miss out doing that?? She already put her neck out, and got beheaded. Now it's your turn to man up, and stick YOUR neck out. Be a man, grow some balls, and be ready to accept the outcome (I'd wager 90% chance of rejection).
New Again Posted August 18, 2009 Posted August 18, 2009 I met a girl just over a month ago and she made it very very obvious that she was into me, but I didn't take "advantage" of the situation at the time... Now I am trying to start something with her, but it seems like she's unsure this time. Her friend told me she is still very interested in me... But I'm not sure how to play this... do I just sit back and wait for her to start calling or texting me... or am I going to miss out doing that?? Don't hold your breath.
sugarmomma Posted August 18, 2009 Posted August 18, 2009 This same situation just happened to me. It was like he wanted me to want him and then when I didn't anymore, here he comes trying to act all interested. I think it was just his ego that got bruised and may be the same with you. I don't think you really want her. As long as she wanted you it was cool. Now you can bring your A game, but you would really need to bring it!!. You should have brought it up front. She has probably friend-zoned you. That's where I put him. He wants to go out tomorrow and I'm gonna meet him and just let him know that he blew a good thing. Poor Guy. He could have been soooooo happy with me. Next time think it through before you start playing the game. She sounds like she knows how it goes.
Author TragicallyHip Posted August 18, 2009 Author Posted August 18, 2009 Wait wait wait, before everyone starts thinking I'm just playing a game let me explain more... When she met me the first time I was in a relationship and admitted to her that I liked her too, but said that I won't cheat and made a point of continuing to be friends with her. Then she started seeing a different guy for a little while... and NOW we are finally both single... But I don't want to come across as the guy who is just the friend who gives her a rider to work... or always answers his texts... I want more, and according to her friends she is still into me... I'm just not convinced and don't know how to act going forward!!
utterer of lies Posted August 18, 2009 Posted August 18, 2009 I met a girl just over a month ago and she made it very very obvious that she was into me, but I didn't take "advantage" of the situation at the time... Now I am trying to start something with her, but it seems like she's unsure this time. Her friend told me she is still very interested in me... But I'm not sure how to play this... do I just sit back and wait for her to start calling or texting me... or am I going to miss out doing that?? Invite her for a drink? Man, that was hard.
Vet Posted August 18, 2009 Posted August 18, 2009 Invite her for a drink? Man, that was hard. Well, it was between that and doing nothing while waiting forever for her to contact him. I can see why he was confused....
utterer of lies Posted August 18, 2009 Posted August 18, 2009 Well, it was between that and doing nothing while waiting forever for her to contact him. I can see why he was confused....
Author TragicallyHip Posted August 18, 2009 Author Posted August 18, 2009 Ok Ok I'm dumb... ha I don't think I explained the situation very well... but all is good... thanks everyone
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