sara82 Posted August 17, 2009 Posted August 17, 2009 My ex and I have been officially broken now for 1 year this past weekend!!! He still texts often...usually random things like "how have you been", "how school going". I found out in June that he is dating someone....yet he still reaches out to me?? Why?? Also after a few too many alcoholic beverages...I checked his facebook page, which of course says he's currently in a relationship with her....but on myspace (which he still logs into regularly) it says he's single?!?!? I know I shouldn't be wracking my brain about this...but why does he still reach out to me??? We've now been broken up for a year (he's the one that dumped me) Also...this new girl can't be that important to him knowning he's still labelled as "single" on one network and not the other. Doesn't that mean something???
davidindallas Posted August 18, 2009 Posted August 18, 2009 maybe it does, maybe it doesnt but either way i dont think you should worry about it. I mean its been a year i hope that by that time my ex has no effect on me what so ever.
vivrantflo Posted August 18, 2009 Posted August 18, 2009 He is just checking up on you. He is also unsure about his relationship with the current woman he's with. I can bet my next paycheck that his woman is a member of facebook, but she doesn't have a myspace profile. That's kind of a red flag for a player/cheater. My advice? Ignore his texts and calls. He has a woman, but finds it appropriate to contact an ex every now and then? That shows disrespect. Don't go on any of his profiles on either site. And ignore his attempts at contact. You've been broken up a year..You're the dumpee, and your dumper has a woman. Is there really anything for the two of you to talk about??
utterer of lies Posted August 18, 2009 Posted August 18, 2009 I can bet my next paycheck that his woman is a member of facebook, but she doesn't have a myspace profile. That's kind of a red flag for a player/cheater. What what what? Please elaborate on that... why is having facebook but not myspace a red flag?
openbook08 Posted August 18, 2009 Posted August 18, 2009 my ex was up to the same tricks & honestly the best thing i ever did was change my no, block his email, deactivate FB.... as vivrantflo said im the dumpee hes the dumper & he has a new woman WHAT is there for us to talk about. PRICK!! (lucky for me i had a good friend who alerted me to the fact that he had a new gf because she knew he was still tuggin at my heartstrings...) its now been 9months NC.
vivrantflo Posted August 18, 2009 Posted August 18, 2009 What what what? Please elaborate on that... why is having facebook but not myspace a red flag? No no. Sara82 said that her ex man has both Myspace and Facebook. On Facebook he says he's in a relationship, but on Myspace, he is single. THAT's the red flag, cause as I stated, I bet you anything, that the ex boyfriend's new woman, doesn't not have a myspace account. I don't think she'd stand for him proclaiming he's single unless she doesn't know about it. Not saying he's 100% guilty, but thats a red flag if I ever saw one.
Author sara82 Posted August 22, 2009 Author Posted August 22, 2009 I honestly feel that he just doesn't know what he want
Trialbyfire Posted August 22, 2009 Posted August 22, 2009 A guy who doesn't know what he wants, is useless to you, if you want a relationship with him. Exes can be fun friends to have, just like anyone else, unless you still have feelings for them. If so, stay away, for your own emotional health.
2sunny Posted August 22, 2009 Posted August 22, 2009 he obviously knows - he's with the other gal... so his actions (by being with her) show that he wants her. he is selfish though, he keeps checking with you to feed his ego - and that's what it does every time you respond to him. also, you are his "plan B" in case things eventually don't work out with her - he has a backup - you. do you really want to be the backup gal? i would think you hold yourself in higher regard than that... you may want to consider not responding to him any further.
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