bbas Posted August 17, 2009 Posted August 17, 2009 i have been going out with my girlfriend for just over a year now. i am 24, she's 21. yesterday she told me that she might be bisexual. she told me of an experience she had with another girl when she was 18. it was at a party and they were both drunk. she said they didnt "go all the way", it was just kissing and feeling each other up. she says that was her only experience and that she hasnt had the urge to take it any further since then. however she doesnt feel repulsed or regret what happened since she told me, i have felt very strange about it. even though she is not 100% sure if she is bisexual, i feel insecure and am worried that this will affect our relationship. i really love her and up to now i thought she was the one i wanted to spend my life with. has anyone else experienced something like this? i feel so confused
Vet Posted August 17, 2009 Posted August 17, 2009 Maybe she is bisexual. Maybe in all possibilities, she's really only attracted to women. What exactly makes you insecure?
boogieboy Posted August 17, 2009 Posted August 17, 2009 Oh boy, she tested you and you failed. She wanted to see if you can handle it, and now you really cant. You really changed your mind about her after she said that she hasnt had any "urges" since?
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