Punker89 Posted August 17, 2009 Posted August 17, 2009 Hi everyone, I'm new here and this is my first post. Was just wanting some help with this. Ok, here it is. I'm 19 and still a Virgin. Now, I was quite happy being a Virgin until recently. When I was in school I got involved with several girls and had some good times without actually going all the way (kissing and a few HJs). For some reason or another something about me has changed and all I wanna do is have sex. No, it's not a peer pressure thing or anything like that. It's just for some reason I'm feeling like I'm slowly slipping into depression and the only time I feel happy really is when I have female company. Now I've always been a hopeless romantic, wanting to meet "The One" etc etc for my first time but I'm getting to the point where I'm wondering whether or not that this is just idealistic crap that I've obsessed with for so long now and by doing so I've missed some good opportunities to mix with different types of women and get experienced in sex. Recently I joined a site that is designed for people to hook up for no-strings sex and discreet relationships and I've had a fair amount of success. In my first week I got 12 emails from older women wanting to show me the ropes. My dilemna is whether or not to hook up with one or more of these women to see if it will cure me and put an end to the way I've been feeling the past few months. I think I've just reached the point where I really want some sexual intimacy. I'm very tempted to reply to some of these women and become involved with them but whenever Im on the site with my cursor hovering over the reply button i begin to get the feeling of butterflies in my stomache. It's strange, it's a mixture of lust and regret, kinda hard to define. I think about it all the time and how much fun it would be to start having sex and broadening my horizons a bit but there is always that voice in my head telling me to wait a bit longer and hope for "The One". I really just don't know what to do at this stage of my life.
caduceus Posted August 18, 2009 Posted August 18, 2009 I know those feelings. I was a virgin 'til 19, and it's hard. You want "The One", and your body is screaming "ANYONE!" (well not just anyone, but you get my meaning). It's normal, your hormones are freaking out, and want to "Do it", plain and simple. It's Sex drive versus what's going on in your head. I'm 44 now, am married to a woman who is younger, and is "The One". I didn't wait for her: I've had many girlfriends in the past, and have had some great experiences sexually, and still do. I'd say just meet a girl, be yourself, and don't worry about losing your virginity. It'll happen. IT WILL HAPPEN. Women can read when a guy is nervous or anxious about it, and want to be put at ease. And yes, there are tons of horny older women out there on the net who will lie their asses off to get a young buck in the sack. If you decide to go that route, just be aware of jealous husbands, and or boyfriends. What I DO know for sure is that teenage girls have sex. They always have. Yes, even in the dark ages when I was 19, teenage girls had sex. Meet, mingle, hang out, have a good time. It'll happen.
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