Isolde Posted August 17, 2009 Posted August 17, 2009 Jaytb, there are TONS of girls who, like me, don't care about definition. And yes, I've stated previously that you're very attractive.
Jaytb Posted August 17, 2009 Posted August 17, 2009 How defined do you call definition? Are you thinking a totally "cut" body? If so, it's not necessary. I already know it's not necessary. My gf said so specifically. I'm just musing about objective standards (and I know, everything takes time and effort) If you're healthy and within reasonable weight, you're going to outmass most women. For that matter, are you larger than your g/f? Yeah, by 4 inches and around 35 pounds. All that matters to her, I think, is that I can pick her up and carry her up the stairs. (although I read the average women in the USA is 148 pounds, and I weigh right now about 150 (5'10"). I think most women will outweigh me, but that's another topic for discussion )
Jaytb Posted August 17, 2009 Posted August 17, 2009 Oh and before I forget, I remember what you look like Jaytb, from the previous picture thread. You're a total cutie, so I don't know why you're worried! haha. I'm not worried. looking at your avatar, you're making me blush
Author Trialbyfire Posted August 17, 2009 Author Posted August 17, 2009 I already know it's not necessary. My gf said so specifically. I'm just musing about objective standards (and I know, everything takes time and effort)Don't worry about objective standards. No one is universally attractive or at least, very few. Yeah, by 4 inches and around 35 pounds. All that matters to her, I think, is that I can pick her up and carry her up the stairs. (although I read the average women in the USA is 148 pounds, and I weigh right now about 150 (5'10"). I think most women will outweigh me, but that's another topic for discussion )Well sheesh, don't worry about it. You've got absolutely nothing to be concerned about. Your g/f will appreciate the differences between your body and hers. Where you're angular, she's rounded, where you're rough, she's smooth. That's all that matters and it's teh hawt!
Author Trialbyfire Posted August 17, 2009 Author Posted August 17, 2009 haha. I'm not worried. looking at your avatar, you're making me blush Flatterer!
Jaytb Posted August 17, 2009 Posted August 17, 2009 Jaytb, there are TONS of girls who, like me, don't care about definition. And yes, I've stated previously that you're very attractive. I also saw your picture (looked very cute), and now you're making me blush. But I am mostly talking about objectively speaking. Muscles and definition wins over lack of definition and less muscles every time. But I'm not going to worry too much about it.
Jaytb Posted August 17, 2009 Posted August 17, 2009 Don't worry about objective standards. No one is universally attractive or at least, very few. Well sheesh, don't worry about it. You've got absolutely nothing to be concerned about. Your g/f will appreciate the differences between your body and hers. Where you're angular, she's rounded, where you're rough, she's smooth. That's all that matters and it's teh hawt! yeah I knew that. It's not about being ripped but just being there. Sorry for the threadjack. I promise it won't happen again
Author Trialbyfire Posted August 18, 2009 Author Posted August 18, 2009 yeah I knew that. It's not about being ripped but just being there. Sorry for the threadjack. I promise it won't happen again Don't worry about it. I'm fully capable of threadjacking you back one day, if not already have done so!
CaliGuy Posted August 18, 2009 Posted August 18, 2009 Yes, I like the puff chest... a lot. They should give nerds steroids.... see what happens. From what I hear, reduced genitalia size. Not exactly the desired result. And while I am not as big as I would be if I took steroids, I'm not ashamed to walk around nekked at the gym either
SoulSearch_CO Posted August 18, 2009 Posted August 18, 2009 From what I hear, reduced genitalia size. Not exactly the desired result. And while I am not as big as I would be if I took steroids, I'm not ashamed to walk around nekked at the gym either :laugh: Bragger. A guy doesn't have to be BIG...cut is nice...some definition. Like TBF keeps saying - angular where she's round... I think it's a simple appreciation between how a woman looks when she's in great physical shape and how a man looks when he's in great physical shape.
kizik Posted August 18, 2009 Posted August 18, 2009 Someone should mop the floor. It's sticky in here
Sam Spade Posted August 18, 2009 Posted August 18, 2009 meh, like-shmike , what good is strength if not used properly; like throw the girl against the wall, carry to the bed, throw on bed, pin the wrists down, pull hair, etc. etc. etc. PS I've caught multiple girls stare - unapologetically:eek: - at my azz/(legs?)
SoulSearch_CO Posted August 18, 2009 Posted August 18, 2009 meh, like-shmike , what good is strength if not used properly; like throw the girl against the wall, carry to the bed, throw on bed, pin the wrists down, pull hair, etc. etc. etc. PS I've caught multiple girls stare - unapologetically:eek: - at my azz/(legs?) :eek: Oy. Soulsearch needs some alone time.
Sandita Posted August 18, 2009 Posted August 18, 2009 Yesss! Muscles on a guy is really hot But not too much - that's a total turn-off (I think)... I like my boyfriend to be strong though
CaliGuy Posted August 18, 2009 Posted August 18, 2009 :laugh: Bragger. A guy doesn't have to be BIG...cut is nice...some definition. Like TBF keeps saying - angular where she's round... I think it's a simple appreciation between how a woman looks when she's in great physical shape and how a man looks when he's in great physical shape. LOL! Yeah I am not a big guy, but I have a nice body thanks to working out a lot. Now, compared to most guys in the gym I look a lot less muscular (and I am) but strength-wise, we're pretty close. Just goes to show you that size can be deceiving. A lot of guys at the gym who aren't even near as big as the "buff" guys can bench more weight. And yeah, ladies like it when you can pick them up or toss 'em around playfully
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