ahotmess Posted August 17, 2009 Posted August 17, 2009 So my first real heartbreak was wretched...I guess all heartbreaks really are in their own way. I have had my heart broken since then, but not at that same level...until this past month. While going through that first heartbreak I frequented LS. I frequented any website that offered insight into how to heal and move on. I am posting the following because since that first heartbreak, I have kept this printed out on my fridge, it is deeply engraved into my soul. And it is helping me move on this time.... You MOVE ON when you decide that you aren't going to give your personal power to someone else. You MOVE ON when you decide to love and respect yourself. You MOVE ON when you realize that pining over someone who doesn't want to be with you is senseless. You MOVE ON when you learn to be perfectly happy and content being single, never "needing" anyone else in your life. You MOVE ON when you realize it's their loss. You are the one person who wouldn't give up on them. You MOVE ON when you start hanging out with friends, hitting the gym, picking up a few new hobbies and focusing on self-improvement. You MOVE ON when you realize that the past is what it is and you can't change it--but you do know that your future is entirely up to you. See it as an opportunity to learn from the past and increase the chances you'll meet the right one. You MOVE ON when you forgive them because hanging on to anger and hate will only serve to make you bitter and keep you down. Forgiving them breaks the chains that bound you to them and lets you start your life anew. How long it takes is entirely up to you.....
soheartbroken Posted August 17, 2009 Posted August 17, 2009 Awesome post. Thanks. I need to print that out too...
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