AugustLane Posted August 16, 2009 Posted August 16, 2009 If you are doing it via email? Please let me get a few replies quickly as I am going to send it soon...
Thornton Posted August 16, 2009 Posted August 16, 2009 Perhaps if you're asking him to do whatever you have in common... e.g. "I know you like sci-fi, and so so I, so I thought you might like to see this sci-fi movie with me". Otherwise it might seem a bit out of place to randomly mention something you have in common.
silverfish Posted August 16, 2009 Posted August 16, 2009 No I don't think you should...having things in common is over rated. Suggest something you like. If you are initiating the date then you should suggest something you like doing and not try too hard to please him
Soul Bear Posted August 16, 2009 Posted August 16, 2009 No I don't think you should...having things in common is over rated. Suggest something you like. If you are initiating the date then you should suggest something you like doing and not try too hard to please him good answer start as you mean to go on do something neither of you have in common
Author AugustLane Posted August 16, 2009 Author Posted August 16, 2009 well I went against the grain and mentioned a common interest (as a joke). I guess I will just have to wait & see... I will update when I get some news.
Author AugustLane Posted August 17, 2009 Author Posted August 17, 2009 yeah. I was silly & to the point.
Soul Bear Posted August 17, 2009 Posted August 17, 2009 hey if you were direct that's good. I would find it attractive. Of course, it all depended how early on in the R it was, to early- and the 'chase' was over
Author AugustLane Posted August 17, 2009 Author Posted August 17, 2009 There is no R. Just a 'keep seeing you & chatting but the place of chatting is not appropriate for me to ask anything since I work here.' (and you dont)
silverfish Posted August 17, 2009 Posted August 17, 2009 I made my boyfriend watch cricket for 6 hours on our first date which wasnt a date ... but hey...we're together a year later. He likes that I told him thats what I wanted to do even though he told me he hated it he likes the fact I have an interest in something different.
Author AugustLane Posted August 17, 2009 Author Posted August 17, 2009 In my email I made it super short & to the point. I know he will still be shopping where I work so I wanted to keep it pretty sterile in case he wasn't interested.
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