tamarachick Posted August 16, 2009 Posted August 16, 2009 Can someone help me out here please. After recently getting divorced, I just had a first date with someone who I've known for a while. It went really well but I committed the sin of because I was nervous drinking too much and being a bit tipsy - he drunk a lot too. I think we were both nervous. Anyway, I have been stressing that I might have said something stupid or put him off. But ..I just wanted to know what happens now. He texted me when I got home and ended the text by saying "... hope to see you soon xxx" and then we texted briefly about something else today and again he ended his text with ".. hope to see you soon xxx". Is this a good sign? Would a guy say that in a text if they didn't have any intention of seeing the girl again? I mean, would a guy say it just to be polite or for something to say? Does is mean he could be interested? If it was me, I wouldn't say that if I definitely didn't want to see someone again for a second date. I was wondering what the etiquette is now - I was thinking I might email him to thank him for the date and maybe suggest something vague about meeting again, just to show I am interested - it must be hard for guys too! Or, should I not. I don't want to be too pushy but at the same time I don't want to be too cool. If I do email, how long do I leave it, etc.... Help please!!
OverThinker Posted August 16, 2009 Posted August 16, 2009 He ended more than one text with hope to see you soon, My guess is he wants you to suggest something. Send he email or text letting him know a timeframe that you are open and then you can work it out from there. BTW I am a guy and that is the response I would be looking for. Good luck, Relax and welcome back to the dating world
Author tamarachick Posted August 18, 2009 Author Posted August 18, 2009 Thanks Overthinker for your guy's perspective. I am trying not to over-analyse and feel better about it today, especially as he was engaging in some jokey email banter (initiated by him) with by brother yesterday about what a bad influence I was on him! I am assuming that if he has no interest in me he wouldn't be engaging with members of my family...I think ....!
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