OP3Crimsin Posted August 16, 2009 Posted August 16, 2009 Then she says she's moving out. If anyone remembers my story then I'm trying to win back my wife and she doesn't love me anymore. We have one kid involved and are locked into a 4 year contract on the house; correction, I'm locked into the house because apparently she CAN move out and she IS in a little over a month. Apparently I'm still trying to control her. We both have lawyers now and it was said that in a divorce situation with children, the judge will most likely mandate marriage counseling on her part since she wants to call it off. She took that as me trying to control her and force her into marriage counseling. I told her that wasn't my decision although I like the idea. She clearly does not want to go to counseling. She says she has made up her mind and this is what she wants. That was apparently the straw that broke the camel's back and she will move her at home business to her parents house and live there with our son. She said she would willingly give up the house but I'm gonna go broke making the payments. Anyone here responsible, makes good money, willing to travel, likes long walks on the beach?!? j/k I'm delerious now. Is it over?!? Or is it never over?!?
tojaz Posted August 16, 2009 Posted August 16, 2009 Depends on your definition of over. Who mandated the one month deadline??
Author OP3Crimsin Posted August 16, 2009 Author Posted August 16, 2009 Well, she did. I didn't give her a month and then say you're out woman, she said I can't live under the same roof as you if you're still going to try and control me like this and said she's going to move in with her parents in a little over a month.
tojaz Posted August 16, 2009 Posted August 16, 2009 Well, she did. I didn't give her a month and then say you're out woman, she said I can't live under the same roof as you if you're still going to try and control me like this and said she's going to move in with her parents in a little over a month. Is something stopping her from moving imediately? It sounds like shes trying to give you an opportunity without saying it outright. Just my take! TOJAZ
Author OP3Crimsin Posted August 16, 2009 Author Posted August 16, 2009 I would've already viewed that as a possible positive sign too but that month timeframe is the time it would take to get her parents house ready to support her at-home business she's been running here.
tojaz Posted August 16, 2009 Posted August 16, 2009 I would've already viewed that as a possible positive sign too but that month timeframe is the time it would take to get her parents house ready to support her at-home business she's been running here. I see, but you still have the month! Have you read the 180!
hopesndreams Posted August 16, 2009 Posted August 16, 2009 I think you should use this month wisely and not even focus on her, but you. She is leaving regardless anyway, time to accept and do limited contact, very limited. Then when the time comes and she walks out the door, you have already made steps to be free of her and it will take the sting out a bit. Prepare yourself for the biggest crushing blow yet to come, by distancing yourself emotionally, now. The best part, the really hopeful part, with LC, is she will realize what she is missing and not leave. But, chances are she is determined, come hell or high water, to walk out of your home. It's not to say that she won't have regrets leaving though, so when she does leave, go NC with her with anything to do with your life, and deal with her only in regard to the child. That will be the toughest challenge and the only option that might work to turn this all around. Good luck.
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