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So my ex-fiance broke up with me about 4 months ago for another man(i have evidence..but i wont say it as a fact).She broke up with me because we kept getting into arguements with her hanging out every minute of this day with some guy she met at a party (take note this is in an LDR...respectful right?).She told me the day she broke up with me that she was "intrigued" by this guy and i essentially said "then go".2 weeks later her fbook profile picture is a picture of her and this guy ,at a formal (take note..this formal took place on the night of my birthday).We were in a long distance relationship about 2000 miles away from each other,but we loved each other.So when she came back to SoCal,we met up.Her compter screensaver,her phone screensaver and even her skype screensaver was this guy.This was about 1 month and half after she left me.

 

At that point,I started NC and started moving on.About 2 weeks ago she sent me fbook messages telling me how much she missed me blah,blah.I remained civil but very short with her.She has spent the last 2 months studying abroad in italy and just came back home.Shehas been texting me and I have been civil but distant.Yesterday,she blew up on me when i called her "buddy".Why?She is upset that i call her buddy "because thats what i call everybody".What is her problem?I do not want her back because she has hurt me ALOT..but i do wish her happiness,health and success even if i am not in her life.Now i think she is becoming bitter by the fact that i am moving on.I want to be friends in the future and dont want her too keep playing games with my head..should i continue to go NC?I mean she is playing headgames and is getting bitter about the fact that i am out and about and keeping myself busy.What should I do?

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You should ignore her. I dont see the reason for a friendship when she cant handle it.

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I agree. Ignore her and move on if you really want to move on. She showed no interest in you when she met this guy...now she shows interest in you, my question is what changed for her? If she felt she had made a HUGE mistake she would have been beating down your down in no uncertain terms, move on my friend, go NC and find the women who wants only you :)

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i am in agreement with everyone else here. move on if you have no interest in it anymore. whats the point really? if you want to be friends that will take some time. but even if you did get back together will you feel trust now? will you feel like you wont have to wrry the next time she meets some guy that intrigues her. by the sounds of it she is not ready to do anything serious with anyone. and avoiding that one my friend will probably save you a lot of grief down the road.

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