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An Unfortunate problem with peoples kind words


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Whenever people tell me things like "You'll meet someone better" or "You will stop hurting eventually, you'll get over them" or "You're better than them" and "You're better off"

 

ALL I think about is someone giving this EXACT same advice to my ex. I can't let anyones advice in, because all I think of, is that my ex is getting the same advice..

 

Thankfully after many months I have moved on a bit... but still, whenever I see people even giving each other advice about breakups, I just think that someone is giving their ex's that same advice, and same with my ex too.

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true, but for me it helps since I want to get better for myself, I cant keep digging a hole and live for someone else. I have learned that, and even though I know my ex isnt receiving those words since she is already with someone else, if she were I know I have made a lasting impression in her life.

 

But part of moving on is caring less what she is thinking / doing. I hope her well.

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