SummerLady Posted August 16, 2009 Posted August 16, 2009 I am not sure why I am asking this on here. I def have issues with insecurity but wanted to throw this out there. Ever since last Thursday my boyfriend in my opinion has been acting kind of distant. Sex is fine, he tells me he loves me but I sense a distance in him and I can't put my finger on it. I asked him Friday is everything ok and he said yes why do you ask and I said I just felt you were acting distant and he attributed the one night to a work problem he was having. Not sure if I am reaching on this as I am sensitive or there is a problem. I guess there is nothing I can doif he says nothing is wrong. We spend 5 days a week together sometimes more. We have been dating for 5 months, serious talking about marriage. I have been divorced for 1 year he has been divorced for 5 years, we both have kids. I am never sure if I am projecting as I was cheated on before and its hard for me to trust. I may just be too sensitive. Help!!!
PhantomSunrise Posted August 16, 2009 Posted August 16, 2009 We have been dating for 5 months, serious talking about marriage. ..........
Roxanna Posted August 16, 2009 Posted August 16, 2009 Yeah, kinda sounds like you are. Not much to go on in your post. If that's all there is to it, no reason, you're probably just being too sensitive.
Author SummerLady Posted August 16, 2009 Author Posted August 16, 2009 Yeah, kinda sounds like you are. Not much to go on in your post. If that's all there is to it, no reason, you're probably just being too sensitive. I guess I need counseling. I was cheated on for years and when I found out I felt so dumb, so so dumb. It really made me question my intelligence and confidence. I was always like what did I miss and did I see something there and ignore it? I am way over the realtionship with my exhusband but much damage was done. Maybe I am too damaged to be in a realtionship if everytime there is a slight little issue I am jumping the gun. Dont you think. The problem is I have an excellent man and I probably going to sabotage this in some way. I may never be ready to trust again.
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