PhantomSunrise Posted August 16, 2009 Posted August 16, 2009 Man, where to start. I KIND OF still love my ex, who I dated for a year. We broke up 8 months ago. I dated a girl since, we'll call her Minny. Well, after 2 months, we broke up. I later find out from her that she cheated and regrets it. I forgive her after a while, and we stay friends. She gets a new boyfriend, then admits she loves me. But stays with her boyfriend. (yeah, I made that expression you just did, too). Now there is a new girl. We'll say her name is Kelly. We are getting very close everyday, and I am falling for her with each day. She feels the same. But her parents are really strict (even though shes 18) and it's difficult to hang out. Part of me wishes I could get back with the girl I love, but I know I can't. I've tried. But I really do have unique and genuine feelings for this new girl Kelly. God knows what the hell to do. I think stick with Kelly. I just wanted to post about my life being a mess. It's lovely. I'm starting to have slight trust issues because a lot of girls I get close with, end up being players. So I have the urge to talk to many girls at once to avoid the pain of losing the one. I don't like this style though and I think it's dishonest and I don't want to be a player. There is this other girl who I could give my number to over facebook (don't worry we met eachother in REAL life first). But I don't know if I should, because I WANT to believe Kelly will follow through and not be a player. But for ****s sake, how do I stop thinking of the girl I love, with another guy? (I don't think she is. We didn't break up so she could be with someone else. We went on a date 6 months after we broke up, she was still single. So I have no reason to believe she is with anyone else).
Exit Posted August 16, 2009 Posted August 16, 2009 Maybe you shouldn't be bothering with anyone new if you still miss your ex? That will just lead to complications. What's the story with that ex, have you tried talking at all in those 8 months? You went on a date with her and nothing ever came of it?
LeXmaRk Posted August 16, 2009 Posted August 16, 2009 Screw Miss Minny for cheating and dont let her waste anymore of your time. Addressing the trust issue. Well perhaps your looking in wrong places. Where do you meet these women? Not to say men or women who bar hop or people who have slept with multitudes of people make crappy partners , but lets say they wouldnt be my first choice. Believe it or not but strippers, prostitutes, sluts and crack whores make crappy wives/girlfriends too. This doesnt mean you got to find a saint either. To stop thinking of ex girl friend is easy. Just remember she is a cheating coward who didnt have the spine to tell you she cheated while you were dating. She is untrustworthy and should be shaken off like a bad case of flees. Want to know what turns me away from ex's after I find out they cheated? I imagine they have herpes. Yea. Good luck
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