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I ended a relationship in January when I found out he was cheating on me. It knocked my confidence big time but recently I went out on a date with a guy I have known for a long time. Anyway after our date his neighbour died and he said he would call me the next day as he was the one who found him ... That was last Sunday and I did not hear from him

 

This knocked my confidence even more as I thought he obviously didnt like me and it happened at the wrong time

 

Anyway, he rang me tonight to tell me he hadnt called as he had been arrested and locked up for 5 days!!!!!!!

 

I was like "OK" and even though it is bad that he got arrested (he asked me to meet him in the week to explain why) I kind of feel relieved that he has a genuine reason and rang me as soon as he got out! How sick is that hahahah

 

So I guess sometimes there is a reason that men dont call eh! :laugh:

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Sounds like you bagged yourself a pathological liar.

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So why did he get arrested?

 

I went out with a guy.. later on during the night I found out he had 'borrowed' his mom's car, was driving without a DL, and 'borrowed' his grandma's debit card to pay for the night. Hmmm yeah... I didn't go out with him again.

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Nooooooo I have known him a very long time, he is not a liar at all we have alot of history, he is a nice guy

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I will not be dating him I was just amused at his reason to be honest

 

I will find out why he got arrested in the week

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Hey Lish, he's no gamer or using any rule books! :laugh:

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Yeah TBF ..... Hilarious!!!!!!! I was the first person he rang when he got out of the 'clink' bless him lol

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So did you asked him why he was knocked up?

 

I never had anyone tell me they got arrested as an excuse, but I suppose these things do happen. :confused:

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I was like "OK" and even though it is bad that he got arrested (he asked me to meet him in the week to explain why) I kind of feel relieved that he has a genuine reason and rang me as soon as he got out! How sick is that hahahah

 

So I guess sometimes there is a reason that men dont call eh! :laugh:

 

I will not be dating him I was just amused at his reason to be honest

 

I will find out why he got arrested in the week

 

 

I have answered that twice lol

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I ended a relationship in January when I found out he was cheating on me. It knocked my confidence big time but recently I went out on a date with a guy I have known for a long time. Anyway after our date his neighbour died and he said he would call me the next day as he was the one who found him ... That was last Sunday and I did not hear from him

 

This knocked my confidence even more as I thought he obviously didnt like me and it happened at the wrong time

 

Anyway, he rang me tonight to tell me he hadnt called as he had been arrested and locked up for 5 days!!!!!!!

 

I was like "OK" and even though it is bad that he got arrested (he asked me to meet him in the week to explain why) I kind of feel relieved that he has a genuine reason and rang me as soon as he got out! How sick is that hahahah

 

So I guess sometimes there is a reason that men dont call eh! :laugh:

 

Tell me, please, that you're not going to go out with him again.

 

He got arrested? I don't care what the reason is. People are not arrested for nothing! LOL.

 

That's just bad mojo right there!

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I will not be dating him I was just amused at his reason to be honest

 

I will find out why he got arrested in the week

 

Come on people, read the writing! It's not hard lol and this thread is for a laugh, no I am not going to date him, I have known him a long time so I will meet him and find out if he is ok and what happened I just found it amusing that all week I was worried he did not like me and it turned out he had been nicked and he called me as soon as he was released lol

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To call him a pathalogical liar after only reading a very small ammount of information like that is absurd and overanalysing. She already said he was a friend and have known him a long time- what you said is defemation of her better judgment of character. sorry, just saying.

 

There could be a reasonable explination.

Such as- He found the body, therefor he would be accused as a possible suspect to homocide should the neighbours death have been suspicious.

Lishy has known this guy a long time, she has her head screwed on propperly.

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