nordicbeauty Posted August 15, 2009 Posted August 15, 2009 I was with my ex for 4 years...known him 5 years in total. Our split was sorta mutual because after 4 years together he couldn't commit to me. Still so in love tho and while it broke my heart altogether, he seems to have moved on... Now...we have been seperated for nearly a year!!! We did have contact up intil a few months ago. But it's not getting any easier, even with the no contact. It actually makes it harder. I still cry several times a day, have no appetite and my whole life has fallen apart with it... It's not like I havent tried to move on..got a new job, new friends, try to go out as much as I can, exercise, eat well etc. But it's not working!!! I even tried dating again but I every time I get close to someone I start missing him even more and end up pushing them away. I miss him sooooo much,I feel so depressed and starting to feel there I can't deal with these feelings anymore. How much crap are you supposed to be able to handle...what can I do to stop the pain without topping myself...???
Exit Posted August 15, 2009 Posted August 15, 2009 You sound a lot like me, I just posted these exact words in my own thread a few days ago. I've done everything, gone out with friends, got a new job, been taking care of myself, but it doesn't help. I've gone out with other girls and I sit there wanting to cry because the person sitting across the table from me isn't who I want to be with. I don't know what help there is for people like us. We HAVE tried moving on, and it hasn't worked. Some people just never get over it....
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