aboynamedmike Posted August 15, 2009 Posted August 15, 2009 Hey guys, I'm feeling the worst I've ever felt since the breakup today and I need some support... I unblocked my ex on facebook, and her pic is of her posing in the ocean water, looking good as hell.......but i unblocked her because I was curious if she was still friends with the kid she cheated on me with, and she wasn't. Now as far as this cheating thing goes, she was so devastated over it and I eventually took her back. She was so sorry and I could never see her doing anything like that again. She cheated on me on false accusations of me, once she learned the truth she cried all the time and told me it only happened once and it happened so fast she just got caught up in the moment.. I had to give her a second chance, I loved her too much... But now that she has stopped talking to this guy she cheated on me with, and has honored my request of not contacting me, I feel like I should do something. I miss her so much today..I dreamed about her last night and she's all I can think about. When I broke up, I did it knowing we needed time apart from each other, and that if we really were 'made' for each other, or loved each other that much, we would come back. Idk if this really happens, but I believe people can change over time. I think if I had met her now, instead of 2 years ago, we would be more compatible. I was a stupid, horny 18 yr old back then, now I'm more mature and hold higher standards for relationships. What do you think I should do? What have you done in a similar situation? Has anyone you known ever broken up, then gotten back together over time? Thanks to whoever reads this, I'm really feelin it today...
Sevenscars Posted August 15, 2009 Posted August 15, 2009 Hmmmm...sounds familiar... Of course she regrets cheating, she was caught. This happened to me, and I took her back. She kept cheating on me with the same man. It's not worth it. She cheated, that is an automatic deal-breaker. Even under "false accusations of you," I mean, look how she handled the situation! Instead of confronting you to talk to you about it, she went off and cheated. A relationship with this kind of person is NOT worth it. And, you won't forget about it any time soon. Every second apart, you will wonder... F her, you deserve better.
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