possession1 Posted August 14, 2009 Posted August 14, 2009 I finally got back together with my boyfriend after 3 month long break he had let his ex wife and ex gf get in the way they both are hysterical demanding women but older than him and rich and powerful he got mad at me when i was upset over him being late or canceling dates because of reasons ot do with them. he was very hurt when i asked for a break. since then he did a lot to be my friends and we dated again (no sex) i know that tomorrow he is moving into a hous ein the same town as his ex . he said its to be closer to his son (but he has his son 50-60 % of th etime already) he sold the house that he currently lived in and gave 50% to his ex wife as ordered by the court. he also added her onto facebook no problem but then i noticed he blocked me from seeing or posting on his wall (i can still see links/status updates) and on top of that deleted my photo comments about his son and also my older comments on his status. i confronted him and he said its to avoid drama. finally i noticed he is developing a webpage for his ex sister in law who is a popular interior designer. he and i had a very nice normal conversation last friday night i had one bad piece of news to tell him though. one of my roommates who suddenly left my house had been getting tons of mail from IRS .... finally an open piece of mail came to me weeks ago. turns out she hasn't paid a small maount of taxes in 1993 and 2003 and theyve been adding in penalties and looking for her ever since. well oddly 1 week ago the irs also also contacted me. i didnt work in 2007 (taking care of dying parent and renovating m house) and i was kind of freaked out. so i tol dmy boyfriend about it. he said to calm down and that it isnt abig deal and that heck he once had a lien on his house from IRS for 90000 ( !!!) so we talked some more and he said for me to not stress and that he had just seen the new movie julie and julia with his son. he said i should cook for him again soon sinc eim so good at it. and thats IT ! i called him and texted him sunday and nothing The last i ever heard from him was nearly 7 days ago. is he fine ? yes he has updated his twitter all week he is on facebook and aim as i type this question. he updated his facebook to say he is proud th emovies he is producing are getting a lot of attention. and speaking of twitter i uploaded ne pics of myself yesterday to my facebook. on his twitter he made fun of people who take photos of themselves and called them vain friendless loosers (losers- spelling isnt his strong suit) he is suddenly bitter and hateful of me ? should i just delete him off everything and never speak to him again ?
BCCA Posted August 15, 2009 Posted August 15, 2009 What would you expect someone to think if you didnt talk to them for a week? He's probably playing you. I have a feeling his ex is still very much in the picture, but when things get sour with her, he tells you she isnt.
Author possession1 Posted August 15, 2009 Author Posted August 15, 2009 What would you expect someone to think if you didnt talk to them for a week? He's probably playing you. I have a feeling his ex is still very much in the picture, but when things get sour with her, he tells you she isnt. If I were in touch with reality, I would agree. But I keep making excuses because i know he worked on his film production stuff, his two companies and was finishing getting everything ready to move tomorrow morning all this week. I just talked to all my friends and they said since he won't try to help me when he knows Im beyond stressed and worried over money right now (at least offering emotional support) that I should just walk away forever.
tkgirl Posted August 15, 2009 Posted August 15, 2009 If I were in touch with reality, I would agree. But I keep making excuses because i know he worked on his film production stuff, his two companies and was finishing getting everything ready to move tomorrow morning all this week. I just talked to all my friends and they said since he won't try to help me when he knows Im beyond stressed and worried over money right now (at least offering emotional support) that I should just walk away forever. oh girl... I hate to break it to you but this guy is as good as gone. The way he wasn't there for you when you needed some support with the whole IRS thing... the fact that he added his ex on FB and then blocked you (hello!) and now he hasn't returned your text or call or whatever it was almost a week ago?! WTF! Seriously though... he sounds like a jerk and why would you even want to be with him? You gotta believe you deserve better... I think it's time you say "NEXT!"
stepka Posted August 15, 2009 Posted August 15, 2009 should i just delete him off everything and never speak to him again ? Yes. sounds like a classic scenario from "He's just not that into you." You deserve way better.
Author possession1 Posted August 15, 2009 Author Posted August 15, 2009 Yes. sounds like a classic scenario from "He's just not that into you." You deserve way better. I never ever planned to rent the movie of the same title. But for the hell of it I did since im home alone tonight adn have to work early and hard all weekend finding a new job. Im watching it and wow it shockingly good I usually HATE chick flicks. But in the movie they even are talking about if a guy doesnt call you in a week to give up.
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