Chicago_Guy Posted August 14, 2009 Posted August 14, 2009 It irks me that he posted some girls picture for the reason he did. It may have been public, but you brought it into a context that transcends her original purpose for posting it, most likely. I just get a creep vibe from you Alpha. And I saw your pic, and you're about a 4/10. So all this bs about getting women and playing the field just comes off as straight lies to me. You should be hitting the treadmill, not playing the field. I agree. As far as I can tell, the only reason why this thread was started in the first place was to announce/brag to everyone that he has a date with a mixed-race woman, not really to seek any specific advice.
Devil Inside Posted August 14, 2009 Posted August 14, 2009 Hey Alpha looks like you got a date with a very good looking woman. I can see why some people have taken offense to the post...however I'm going to give you the benefit of a doubt and chalk your words up to ignorance and not malice. Besides, you're a brown brother, you, I'm sure, have dealt with true racists. So anyways..as a man of mixed background (Hispanic/White) I would hope that first and foremost I be treated like anyone else. I think that you need to be yourself. I mean a date is to get to know someone and if you come off as fake then you can forget a second date. Second, I think a person's socio-economic status has way more to do with how someone carries themselves then does just race. Their are certain culturally norms within each socio-economic class. That being said, nobody is the same, we all have different backgrounds and experiences that make us who we are. I do think that taking a color blind approach is also wrong. She is a woman first...but notice her beautiful mocha skin. She has probably experienced life differently because of her mixed background. You can probably identify, as someone that is not from the majority culture. Good luck my brown brother.
Chubbi Posted August 14, 2009 Posted August 14, 2009 i was married to an indian girl for 3 years. had to cut her loose. she basically turned me off to indian women which still continues to this day I never understood why people say things like this. Are all Indian girls the exact same identical as your exW personality and looks wise? I mean that would be a modern miracle 100000 people all look and act alike.. I mean even twins act differently. Why hasn't any of your white g/f turned you off to white girls? Or are they all different?
Author alphamale Posted August 14, 2009 Author Posted August 14, 2009 Methink you need to get off your high horses.. I don't think Alpha's thread was intended to start a racist debate.. I doubt he even thought his thread would turn like that.. indeed Alpha.. let us know how it went.. i will I agree. As far as I can tell, the only reason why this thread was started in the first place was to announce/brag to everyone that he has a date with a mixed-race woman, not really to seek any specific advice. actually i've never dated a mixed race woman so i was just wondering if there is anything i should or should not do or say.
Author alphamale Posted August 15, 2009 Author Posted August 15, 2009 yea so we went out for dinner and half way thru she tells me she's moving to boston in 2 weeks. how lame, why accept a date if you're moving? other than that the date went great
Starshine Black Posted August 15, 2009 Posted August 15, 2009 yea so we went out for dinner and half way thru she tells me she's moving to boston in 2 weeks. how lame, why accept a date if you're moving? other than that the date went great Hmm... it's possible she did this as an excuse, you know? I don't think many people are... well... what's the word... daft enough to accept a date when they know they're about to move. Oh well, more fish in the sea. -TXZ
Author alphamale Posted August 15, 2009 Author Posted August 15, 2009 Hmm... it's possible she did this as an excuse, you know? she's a "traveling" physicial therapist who moves from town to town every six months or so. in addition she's on meetup.com and if she was still here i would eventually run into her again. so she wasn't lying.
BenThereDunThat Posted August 15, 2009 Posted August 15, 2009 I never understood why people say things like this. Are all Indian girls the exact same identical as your exW personality and looks wise? I mean that would be a modern miracle 100000 people all look and act alike.. I mean even twins act differently. Why hasn't any of your white g/f turned you off to white girls? Or are they all different? Chubbi, I wanted to PM you to tell you how much I loved this, but I couldn't. Anyway, you are spot-on with this response. Seriously. Best response to the whole thread.
tami-chan Posted August 15, 2009 Posted August 15, 2009 In fairness Sal, as far as I know Alpha's East Indian. He hates his own?
tami-chan Posted August 15, 2009 Posted August 15, 2009 yea so we went out for dinner and half way thru she tells me she's moving to boston in 2 weeks. how lame, why accept a date if you're moving? other than that the date went great oh man...you got punked! LOl!...kidding...so what if she's moving to Boston? Boston is IN the US...not India....it's not that far! :p:p
thegoodlife Posted August 15, 2009 Posted August 15, 2009 Alpha I know you didn't mean it this way but I have to say even from reading the title of your thread I was instantly bothered. Being half black-half white myself, I would truly hope that if I was going on a date with a man he wouldn't be referring to me as a 'mixed race girl' and rather 'a woman'. My race has always seemed to play a factor into people opinion's about me, or just like you, wonder if there are any topics to steer clear of. I'm a person, and the fact that I'm mixed race is as insignificant as the fact I wear size six shoes-- it's really not relevant in my eyes. As long as I'm treated with the same respect as any other woman of any other race, then it's all good. And for me personally, there are no topics to avoid besides my race, like if you were to say to me "so I've never been out with a mixed-race woman before" that would be a turn-off because I would hope you'd see more than the external part of me. But if you were to compliment her looks, rather than make it about her race then that's fine.
Lizzie60 Posted August 15, 2009 Posted August 15, 2009 You still got 2 weeks to date her.. before she leaves.
Author alphamale Posted August 15, 2009 Author Posted August 15, 2009 You still got 2 weeks to date her.. before she leaves. well she is coming to my dinner tonite so maybe we'll end up at her place. she could be looking just for a casual encounter
quankanne Posted August 15, 2009 Posted August 15, 2009 how lame, why accept a date if you're moving? duh, alpha ... to MEET people and mix it up a bit? son, sometimes, I just want to reach through the monitor and smack your hiney a bit for being menso with these comments of yours!
alexlakeman Posted August 16, 2009 Posted August 16, 2009 There is no thing such as mixed race, either you are black or white.. that's like say you are 1/2 gay, either you like it in the pooper or you don't.. I would just date my race...let her date her race.. no way...
Author alphamale Posted August 16, 2009 Author Posted August 16, 2009 how lame, why accept a date if you're moving? duh, alpha ... to MEET people and mix it up a bit? son, sometimes, I just want to reach through the monitor and smack your hiney a bit for being menso with these comments of yours! if i was permanently moving 1000 miles away in 2 weeks i wouldn't ask anyone out. what would be the point?
quankanne Posted August 16, 2009 Posted August 16, 2009 to socialize and mingle with people! At least she was honest enough to tell you up front! are you really this high maintenance? Dude ... it's just a date!
EYECANDY000 Posted August 16, 2009 Posted August 16, 2009 Pick her up in the huge black 451 bus! that'll impress her!
silverfish Posted August 16, 2009 Posted August 16, 2009 What does East Indian origin mean anyway? It's usually referred to as Indian over here, or Pakistani, Bangladeshi, whatever. It would be strange for me to label myself as West British... I don't get it
Chicago_Guy Posted August 17, 2009 Posted August 17, 2009 yea so we went out for dinner and half way thru she tells me she's moving to boston in 2 weeks. how lame, why accept a date if you're moving? other than that the date went great It sounds as though she totally scammed you for a free meal!
Author alphamale Posted August 17, 2009 Author Posted August 17, 2009 It sounds as though she totally scammed you for a free meal! yea thats what i'm thinking...maybe i'll have to rethink the escort/call girl thing
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