Lizzie60 Posted August 14, 2009 Posted August 14, 2009 I'm meeting this girl Kara who seems to be half black and half white tonite for drinks and appetizers at Zed451 downtown. Its a pretty upscale place. I've never gone out with a girl from this background before. Is there anything i should be wary of or any subjects i should not bring up in polite drunken discussion? WOW... just don't take her to your place if you have a 'little black fisherman' in your lawn.. A girl with a background like this is no different than any other woman.. geezzz... My best advice: just don't get drunk... that is sooooo CLASSLESS..
quankanne Posted August 14, 2009 Posted August 14, 2009 hey! I thought you were going the old-fashioned route and paying for your sex ... er, dates?
sally4sara Posted August 14, 2009 Posted August 14, 2009 i haven't dated many non-white girls so i'm sort of going into unchartered waters here. that's all. No, you're just assuming it will be very different because you're overly preoccupied with the ethnicity of the girl rather than who she is as an individual. No one on this forum can help you prepare for this date as they don't know this girl and nothing they know about other mixed race people can necessarily be applied to her.
Lizzie60 Posted August 14, 2009 Posted August 14, 2009 OMG.. I just saw the picture... she's cute.. (classy) Methink... you won't get a second date..
Author alphamale Posted August 14, 2009 Author Posted August 14, 2009 hey! I thought you were going the old-fashioned route and paying for your sex ... er, dates? naah, i decided against that....not enough challenge No, you're just assuming it will be very different because you're overly preoccupied with the ethnicity of the girl rather than who she is as an individual. No one on this forum can help you prepare for this date as they don't know this girl and nothing they know about other mixed race people can necessarily be applied to her. trust me, i'll do fine. don't take this thread too serious
GorillaTheater Posted August 14, 2009 Posted August 14, 2009 Quote: Originally Posted by northstar1 I have a soft spot for east indian girls. not me ____________ That's kind of interesting. Why not?
girl68 Posted August 14, 2009 Posted August 14, 2009 If things progress fast ensure to introduce her as: "this is kara, the mixed black girl I told you about- isn't she exotic!?" Different girls, need to be treated different right? And even if you're not racist- that is the sole vibe I get from you (and I'm not alone).
Author alphamale Posted August 14, 2009 Author Posted August 14, 2009 That's kind of interesting. Why not? i was married to an indian girl for 3 years. had to cut her loose. she basically turned me off to indian women which still continues to this day
Lizzie60 Posted August 14, 2009 Posted August 14, 2009 It irks me that he posted some girls picture for the reason he did. It may have been public, but you brought it into a context that transcends her original purpose for posting it, most likely. I just get a creep vibe from you Alpha. And I saw your pic, and you're about a 4/10. So all this bs about getting women and playing the field just comes off as straight lies to me. You should be hitting the treadmill, not playing the field. Ouch!!! ..........
sally4sara Posted August 14, 2009 Posted August 14, 2009 i was married to an indian girl for 3 years. had to cut her loose. she basically turned me off to indian women which still continues to this day Well thats because the ALL are Brahman, worship cows, and have leprosy, right? You're a racist.
Author alphamale Posted August 14, 2009 Author Posted August 14, 2009 I just get a creep vibe from you Alpha. And I saw your pic, and you're about a 4/10. So all this bs about getting women and playing the field just comes off as straight lies to me. You should be hitting the treadmill, not playing the field. hey lets leave teh personal attacks out And even if you're not racist- that is the sole vibe I get from you (and I'm not alone).
quankanne Posted August 14, 2009 Posted August 14, 2009 i was married to an indian girl for 3 years. had to cut her loose. she basically turned me off to indian women which still continues to this day hate to be the one to say it, but you end up with what you know. In my case, gringo boy ... your case, Indian girl. No matter how widely varied the ethnic background of the chicks you date. nice pose in the avatar, lizzy – did she hurt her back or something?
GorillaTheater Posted August 14, 2009 Posted August 14, 2009 Well thats because the ALL are Brahman, worship cows, and have leprosy, right? You're a racist. In fairness Sal, as far as I know Alpha's East Indian.
sally4sara Posted August 14, 2009 Posted August 14, 2009 In fairness Sal, as far as I know Alpha's East Indian. I know, I'm hoping to illustrate how ignorant he is being by mirroring it.
girl68 Posted August 14, 2009 Posted August 14, 2009 You said don't take this thread too seriously!? Ok, I have another one for you: When you're staring at her something, something D sized breasts and she gives you the uncomfortable, please-stop-staring-at-my-tities look ask her kindly "I apologize but those big, beautiful, mixed-black, breasts are getting the best of me".
northstar1 Posted August 14, 2009 Posted August 14, 2009 Well thats because the ALL are Brahman, worship cows, and have leprosy, right? You're a racist. How is what he said racist?
Lizzie60 Posted August 14, 2009 Posted August 14, 2009 Well thats because the ALL are Brahman, worship cows, and have leprosy, right? You're a racist. Humm.. methink this post is more racist than his posts..
sally4sara Posted August 14, 2009 Posted August 14, 2009 How is what he said racist? By believing that because he has never dated a mixed race person, it will be completely different from dating any other ethnicity of woman simply due to the mixed girl having a different ethnicity. And/or That any experience with a mixed ethnicity female someone else might have, could be applicable to any other mixed ethnicity female. An example would be: Like saying "hey, I just employed a Hispanic guy to help in my shop - what should I expect?" "Well, I employed a Hispanic guy once and he was always drunk and high." "Oh darn, I'll (what ever stupid action this info makes him think he should do)."
Thaddeus Posted August 14, 2009 Posted August 14, 2009 In my experience (with friendships), mixed-race chicks seem to be more highly-evolved than most of the rest of us. They have strong personalities, are confident in their own abilities, opinionated, with lots of emotional intelligence, and are socially adept - possibly because of having experienced both sides of the fence... or neither (not completely fitting in with either "side", they've had to learn to stand on their own two feet).I dated only one mixed-race girl for a short time, and this was my experience too. Highly opinionated and strong, but in a way that wasn't aggressive or made others feel uncomfortable. Oddly, though, she couldn't stand up to her family, and any relationship between her and I was doomed from the start. I wasn't in her racial group and her family objected. She's now happily married to a similar mixed-race man and they have GORGEOUS children. I still bump into her (metaphorically speaking) from time to time. In the overall sense she wasn't much different than most of the other women I've dated. She just wanted to be respected. The dates with her were not really any different than dates I've had with non-mixed-race women.
sally4sara Posted August 14, 2009 Posted August 14, 2009 Humm.. methink this post is more racist than his posts.. Humm...methink it is because you didn't bother to read post #40.
Lizzie60 Posted August 14, 2009 Posted August 14, 2009 Methink you need to get off your high horses.. I don't think Alpha's thread was intended to start a racist debate.. I doubt he even thought his thread would turn like that..
sally4sara Posted August 14, 2009 Posted August 14, 2009 Methink you need to get off your high horses.. I don't think Alpha's thread was intended to start a racist debate.. I doubt he even thought his thread would turn like that.. His threads have this theme common I'm dating a Hispanic woman - what will happen? I'm dating a mixed race woman - what should I watch out for? Its dumb and racist to think that a person's ethnicity dictates everything about them or that one person's experience with a certain ethnicity will be anyone else's experience.
AAlike Posted August 14, 2009 Posted August 14, 2009 Try your best not to let the adjective "exotic" slip out...
Chicago_Guy Posted August 14, 2009 Posted August 14, 2009 I'm meeting this girl Kara who seems to be half black and half white tonite for drinks and appetizers at Zed451 downtown. Its a pretty upscale place. I've never gone out with a girl from this background before. Is there anything i should be wary of or any subjects i should not bring up in polite drunken discussion? If you suspect that she's so hyper-sensitive that she cannot handle you being yourself and talking the way you normally would with a woman, why even waste your time dating her?
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