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Ok just to give u a recap of my story.....

 

-I made dumb mistakes in the relationship (nothing like cheating or anything)

-Girlfriend got fed up and asked for a break...

-During break I believe well almost certain she began seeing someone else. She wont admit it, claims he's just a friend. Me and the guy have had words before

-Broke up with me last Thursday

-Decide we would take things slow and work on our relationship on Monday

 

Now here's with the BS starts. This is Tuesday The guy that i believe she is seeing requested to be my friend on FB for the second time. I ask y do you keep requesting to be my friend? later on the day he responded and said my ex was his girl. She happened to be calling me the same time i was reading this and i tell her whats going on. She swears up and down he just tryin to be smart bc of our past argument. I'm flipping out saying the guy is a loser, why does he keep saying this if you are not with him. y do u keep being his friend if he's going to continue to come between us blah blah...she said she was going to call me right back and talk to him about this. She called me right back and said that it was over there would b know more messages and she apologize. Well i had already respond to the guy by then. He responded bac saying she came to him bc i f-ed up and she probably still does love u but she loves me more and i love her back...she gone...she's just trying to let u down easy.

 

Later on that night i get a text from her asking y did i have to feed into it...she done with both of us...and dont call her no ****ing more. So i sent her another text back laying her out about all that happened. Told her i would give her what she wants and hope she doesn't regret it because im gone...and that the part that hurt is she kicked me to the curb for some cornball loser that not gonna be worth **** in the next couple of months.

 

Well the next morning I got a long apology text...didnt respond. Got a couple of phone calls and text beggin me to call her back. Yesterday she called me 9 times left messages crying saying she's sooo sorry, she misses me, she feels crazy, she wants another chance, she just wants to her my voice, she loves me sooo much.

 

I want to work things out with her but only under these conditions: she comes clean about everything and she doesn't contact the guy ever again. If she cant do both of those things there's no point in us talking anymore. My question is is it too soon to talk to her and tell her my ultimatum? Should I give it more time so she can see what she truly lost?and is her crying and pleading just away to hook me back into her BS, do u believe its genuine or is it too early to tell?

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Maybe I'm just bitter, but here goes.

 

A woman can turn on the tears like flipping a switch. Of course she would be crying -- now she will only have one guy pining after her, not two!

 

It's bull, she will not "come clean," it sounds like she has been feeding you BS, and if you request that she tell you what is going on she will feed you even more BS.

 

Seriously, what do you expect her to say?

"Yeah, I have been f'ing this guy for the past few months now, at the same time I have been f'ing you -- but at least i'm being truthful, what more do you want!"

 

It's not worth it, you may as well cut your losses and leave. Girls never respond well to an ultimatum. In her eyes, it'll make you look worse.

 

Leave, let her stay with Mr. Cornball Loser (who gets his feeling of importance by messing with his girl's ex -- totally lame). In a few months when she realizes what she's done, she will probably come crawling back to you but by then you won't even want anything to do with it.

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