greenparrot Posted August 14, 2009 Posted August 14, 2009 My ex always breaks contact with me after 3 days. This Monday I thought she would hold forever, since she said she understood that her contacting me, would hurt me more. However yesterday from a distance she saw me in campus, she was with her friend, and screamed my name and waved. I was on the phone and simply waved back. She later texted me: - I miss you, i hope you know that. - Why did you brush me off like that? - If you hate me thats cool, I dont. - See? you never reply, your being very meean to me. I didnt reply, she called me also. Anyway, I went home and feel asleep. I woke up at around 2 am and saw my cellphone ringing like crazy ( i had 20 lost calls at 1:00 to 2:00 non stop) So unconciously I answered the call that was there. It was her, and I was half asleep. She put a song, and told me to listen, something that what happened with our love? I still love you, etc. Anyway it ended, I told her why do you put that, you want to hurt me more? And she was like, thats how I feel (yet she chooses another dude).. Anyway she insists since 2 weeks ago to talk with me face to face. I tell her no, will the outcome change? And she is like just hear me out, and it all depends on you if you understand it and work it out. She told me to give her an answer by today if I wanted to talk. Suposedly she has something important to tell me, she once said she is only hanging out with this guy cause he has issues, but I was very strong to tell her I didnt want to know anything about him or his relation with her. Do I send a text saying I wont hear her anymore? Or hear what she has to say?
silic0ntoad Posted August 14, 2009 Posted August 14, 2009 Hm. I would meet with her. Depending on what she has to say, you can either have complete closure or an opening to mend the relationship.
GrayClouds Posted August 14, 2009 Posted August 14, 2009 are you interested in getting back with her? she is playing games with you if there was something important she would just tell you what it is not give you ultimatums. remember her actions not her words are offering the truth, just blow it all off and don't respond then practice: http://www.loveshack.org/forums/t84894/ http://www.loveshack.org/forums/t84894/
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