SuperTodd Posted August 14, 2009 Posted August 14, 2009 I moved 2 australia from england 2 months ago and split with my girlfriend when i left. Before i left and for a couple of weeks after she was sending me 5 messages a day saying she loved me and wanted to do long distance. Then a week after that she sent me a message saying she didnt want to anymore and wanted to break up, so i said fine as its for the best. I then found out she liked some other guy who was one of my friends in England and has been snooping on her for months even when we were going out. I still love her and it kills me 2 think of them together, ive everything from telling her i love her and want 2 work it out, to argueing with her. I guess it hit me hard because when we were together in England she would tell me she loved me everyday and say about how she would never be able 2 find another guy like me etc etc. Now i'm in the situation where she has blocked me from IM after a huge arguement because shes been a complete ***** to me, i wont go into detail but things like giving me the wrong number to ring her and i havent done anything 2 hurt her i just told her i loved and missed her. But now shes gone off with this ***** and i cant do anything about it and i think about it everyday ive even cried and i never cry! i dont know what to do i want 2 move on but i cant :S what should i do?
trueblue72ny Posted August 14, 2009 Posted August 14, 2009 im sorry to hear you are hurting. no offense but you moved away. you are 8,000 miles away. do you plan on moving back to england?
Author SuperTodd Posted August 14, 2009 Author Posted August 14, 2009 no i dont but me and her had such a good relationship and she wanted 2 do whatever it took to stay together until 3 weeks after i left and i just cant get over her especially seeing as shes with that guy (one of my old friends from england whos been a complete ****)
trueblue72ny Posted August 14, 2009 Posted August 14, 2009 long distance relationships never work out. because you are a long distance away. your not even in the same country anymore. so someone would have to move so you could be together. and if that isnt going to happen than you can kiss it good bye. not trying to sound harsh. but its the reality. sorry your 'friend' turned out to be a weasel and moved in on her. i dont know what i would be more upset over. maybe moving will turn out to be better off.
Author SuperTodd Posted August 14, 2009 Author Posted August 14, 2009 i really want 2 move on but i cant get her out of my head she was gorgeous and thinking about her being with such a douchebag hurt so much, ive never felt like this before no relationship ever went as well as that did, ive deleted her from facebook, and all her friends, every text etc to try and not think about her do u have any tips?
GrayClouds Posted August 14, 2009 Posted August 14, 2009 you hurt her by ending the relationship, she is getting back at you and found a really good way to do it. it was hurtful, spiteful and immature. not to discount your pain but remember you did end the relationship, it won't help playing the victim, it gived away to much of your power. its time to move on and get past her. its going to be hard and would have been easier if she did not snag your friend. but ask yourself do you really want s person who would so easily do that to some they love? your in a new place, start enjoying it. tips? follow this: http://www.loveshack.org/forums/t81399/
Author SuperTodd Posted August 14, 2009 Author Posted August 14, 2009 i didnt end the relationship she did, and the things shes done 2 me since has been brutal, lying to me, her brother texting me off her phone saying she doesnt care about me, not answering her phone. and its so weird because i would never have imagined it when i was in england she was like obsessed with me
GrayClouds Posted August 14, 2009 Posted August 14, 2009 i didnt end the relationship she did, and the things shes done 2 me since has been brutal, lying to me, her brother texting me off her phone saying she doesnt care about me, not answering her phone. and its so weird because i would never have imagined it when i was in england she was like obsessed with me sorry i missed understood. again ask yourself do you really want s person who would so easily do that to some they love? she is being hateful and selfish, be thankful your done with her you deserve better and will find it. right now face the pain, scream, cry and punch the air then read these and do it, it will help: http://www.loveshack.org/forums/t81399/ http://www.loveshack.org/forums/t84894/
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