Author matt87 Posted August 22, 2009 Author Posted August 22, 2009 Matt, as someone who works in the university system there are support networks which can help. You should have a personal tutor who might be a port of call. Personally, and from experience, if you are in halls you might want to approach your hall tutor or you might prefer to speak to a councillor on campus. It is confidential and they are kind and helpful people. Let me know if you need further advice. IME many have gone through what you are going through, but you do emerge out of the other side. Thanks I think I might try and see if I can see a councilor, while studying at uni.. luckly I am not staying in the halls, as I live quite near to the uni ( about 45 mins from it ).. thanks for your confidence
Author matt87 Posted September 15, 2009 Author Posted September 15, 2009 Just to update you all.. I have finally joined some clubs.. and well I havent really met or become freinds with anyone yet.. I have tryed making freinds.. but people seem to be sticking to just who they know.. just gonna have to see how it goes.. also I have stopped contacting some uni freinds, as they were never contacting me.. but I had a freind over last sunday which was nice, and well I spoke to a guy from uni.. still getting down abit on the dating scene.. its got to the point where I would date either a man or woman just to have some kind of intimacy
seoa Posted September 15, 2009 Posted September 15, 2009 have you tried joining one of the christian groups... they can often be quite inclusive (if you find a good one), doesn't really matter what you do or don't believe...
Author matt87 Posted September 16, 2009 Author Posted September 16, 2009 have you tried joining one of the christian groups... they can often be quite inclusive (if you find a good one), doesn't really matter what you do or don't believe... Good idea I havent joined any yet, But I think I will try joining the christan group at uni when I start
Author matt87 Posted September 22, 2009 Author Posted September 22, 2009 I had my induction day for uni today.. it went okay.. i saw a couple of freinds there, that were on my previous course.. we were seperated when we were all put into our groups.. I felt so lonely, as I had no one to chat to, for most of the day.. and it put me off the course, as am tired of being on my own.. saying that though, I did speak to 2 or 3 people on the course, but most people didnt seem interested in chatting to me
Alexaangel Posted September 22, 2009 Posted September 22, 2009 I am sorry you are in such a bad state. But I want you to know that there are caring people in this world who would want to be your friend. A support group maybe a good place to start. Have you ever tried a support group? There are other people who feel as lonely as you do.
Author matt87 Posted September 22, 2009 Author Posted September 22, 2009 I am sorry you are in such a bad state. But I want you to know that there are caring people in this world who would want to be your friend. A support group maybe a good place to start. Have you ever tried a support group? There are other people who feel as lonely as you do. sounds like a cool idea.. Cant say I tried a support group at my uni, but could always see if there is one.. I just felt so left out today, and im dreading tomorrow as we suppose to be doing work with a partner, but I never got one You know when you like enter a room and you see everyone chatting and your the only one sitting on your own.. thats how it was kinda and it felt awful.. it wouldnt be so bad if sumone came over and started chatting to me.. I did try talking to a couple of people.. spoke to 2 girls, the first one just ignored me, and the second one would talk to me, but everytime I would have to start a conversation. I spoke to one guy and we had abit of a laugh, but he went home early.. I also tryed speaking to another guy, but he completely ignored me.
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