confued and dont know what to!

[curly0777]

hi. Iv'e been in a relationship for 2 years, which we have now both decided to finish it. We got on really well, and really love eachothers company. he's 15 years older than me and he wasnt sure if he wants any children, and i do eventualy. but now he's saying "i want to work out in my head why im so scared of having kids cos i do want to want them with you, cos it seems a shame to waste such a good thing". i know we both still love eachther and want to be together, but it seems like theres so many little problems in the way. we argued a little bit, he's not very sociable around other people which is sometimes abit hardwork. We had a great sex life and great communication. Could talk to eachother about anything. He's also quite independant, but im the opposite, i feel like i need someone. we keep talkin about what to do but cant work out whats for the best. Should i try and move on? Its also hard, cos we're in a band togther, so we see eachother quite alot. So wenever we're apart, i just look forward to the next gig iv got cos il be seeing him. Is it possible to make ourselves be able to just be friends? I just dont know what to do, wether to stay strong and find someone else, or get back together. Im scared of doing the wrong thing. i know he would get back together now if i said i wanted to, but i dont know what i want. and all i keep thinking of is how much he's hurting. im so confused