amokqq Posted August 14, 2009 Posted August 14, 2009 Allright, The situation with my Ex-gf is getting a bit complicated. its starting to crawl all over my mind. I need some advice... again. So, to make the story short, after 8 months I started to meet my ex-gf as friends, we discussed why we broke up, what was wrong, what was right... and her conclusion is that I'm still the only guy that understands her needs. We understand each other like no one else. She told me that she still thinks about me daily, finds me very attractive. It's confusing. We don't know what we feel! Is this love? I think we haven't stopped loving each other. It's crazy... We go on much better now, no arguments, we have a lot of fun together and help each other out. She says she doesn't see the future without me. The only thing keeping us apart is fear that if we have a relationship we will screw everything up again... just as it happened the first time. Damn, we planned to move abroad together and live together - but not as a couple. I don't know what should I do, should I keep it as it is? Should I slowly push further? Is there any chance to get together again? We hug, no kissing or anything... but we feel as if nothing changed, talk about the same things and do the same stuff we did as a couple... It's really confusing.
hopesndreams Posted August 14, 2009 Posted August 14, 2009 Should I slowly push further? Never. In fact, start distancing yourself from her, that might draw her in.
Author amokqq Posted August 14, 2009 Author Posted August 14, 2009 Thx for the reply... I understand, I'll try to keep cool. Don't want her to stress out... see me as needy or something. Right will keep you updated on the situation. Yesterday after our little "date" she sent me a text saying, thanks for the time you spent with me, sleep good... she never did anything like that. Sounds good for me.
EricaH329 Posted August 23, 2009 Posted August 23, 2009 This is a veryyy dangerous situation. I'm really not too sure what kind of advice to give, except be careful, veryyy careful. Just keep in mind that if things don't go the way you hope for them to, it's going to end very badly. I wish you the best of luck though!
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