butterflysil Posted August 14, 2009 Posted August 14, 2009 ok this is my first post. i really love love shack. ok well this is my story me and me ex fiance broke up last may. mostly due to him loosing his job and just been down and angry all the time. he dumped me. we dating for two years, got engaged after 10 months. well in september i broke and went to go see him, all was well felt like we could actualy work things out. after two weeks i said fine if we are really going to do this than i regrettfully told him what i have been up to since may. nothing much just basically that his cousin was hitting on me. he blamed me and we got into a fight and never spoke once since than. well this monday out the blue he calls me. i missed his call and honestly moved on with my life. i have been doing great, that i hear of not much changed with him. so i have missed him everyday since than, especially this pass may which was our wedding day. but was doing completely well up until i saw he called. he is a very passionate person as well as i am, so just to call to say hi is not like him. Any opinions to y he called? my world is completely upside down now.
TaraMaiden Posted August 14, 2009 Posted August 14, 2009 Ignore him. Yes, ignore him. Completely. He's messing with your mind. He's jealous, possessive and sounds as if he might even have controlling tendencies. How do I tell this? He dumped you, then he blamed you for his cousin coming on to you, yet he's calling you....? yanking your chain. Ignore him. He will try again. And you must still ignore him. Go No Contact, and do not let him get under your skin. Hang up on him, refuse his calls, e-mails, texts and anything else he tries.
Thaddeus Posted August 14, 2009 Posted August 14, 2009 Tara is right. Stick with complete NC on him. Makes no difference if he continues to try and contact you - you can't control that, but you can control whether you respond or not. So stay in control. Maintain NC.
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