Lucky555 Posted August 13, 2009 Posted August 13, 2009 Facebook oh wonderful facebook. This guy has been contacting me and has asked me out. He told me this past weekend he was out with some people but they were much older than him ect. Well well well, facebook shows him hanging out with a girl!! Really they could be friends but why lie to me? WHY! Even if he said, ya a friend was there and she blah blah blah...It wouldn't be half as bad. Now i don't want to date him because obviously hes the type of guy that doesn't tell the whole truth. "what she don't know won't hurt her" well this boy is SOL! Secondly, a guy that has been contacting me has been coming up with the most absurd things of why he isn't available right now. Its always his work. well you know what Im not available either good bye. I have not asked him out either he makes sure to keep me strung along..heck no! I'm saying good bye to both guys, I HAVE HAD ENOUGH. I don't think love or relationships work like this. Its very frustrating when i liked the second guy a lot and now it just need to be strong and do for myself. Screw him. Thats my rant on the two guys who are "suposedly liking me" why do they bother contacting me?!!! If they are not interested they should just stop. So they don't so i am going to stop replying to them!
xpaperxcutx Posted August 13, 2009 Posted August 13, 2009 Because internet flirtation passes the time? I flirt alot on the internet, but it doesn't mean I'll date any of the guys. Ever try dating in real life? At least you can guage a person by body language rather than having to snoop around their FBs.
Author Lucky555 Posted August 13, 2009 Author Posted August 13, 2009 its not internet dating. i know the second guy and the first guy has been calling and texting ect. seems like each guy just wants a game
xpaperxcutx Posted August 13, 2009 Posted August 13, 2009 its not internet dating. i know the second guy and the first guy has been calling and texting ect. seems like each guy just wants a game Okay so you know the guys. Do you see them all the time? Yes, guys that play games don't value you.
Hkizzle Posted August 13, 2009 Posted August 13, 2009 err, because it is a game? Some men don't have to like a woman to chase a woman. A successful seduction = sex and a boost to the ego for the success.
tinklebell Posted August 13, 2009 Posted August 13, 2009 Some men don't have to like a woman to chase a woman. A successful seduction = sex and a boost to the ego for the success. Really? Someone they DON'T LIKE?
Hkizzle Posted August 13, 2009 Posted August 13, 2009 Really? Someone they DON'T LIKE? Yeah as in someone you're just attracted to physically but have no desire to have a relationship with. Not all men do it, the level with which a man does it varies on a scale. So typically a player rarely likes any woman and has sex with lots of women, each one the player finds physically attractive but has no desire to continue anything with. A sterotypical nice guy is on the other extreme. He often has problems attracting women because he's head over heels about her before he's even gotten her. Which comes off as desperate and needy.
Author Lucky555 Posted August 14, 2009 Author Posted August 14, 2009 update. have not spoke to either guy.will not speak to either guy. none can progress things then I wont bother simple as that Thanks for the input everyone. I'll keep moving on some day I will hopefully meet a great guy!
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