Taucher Posted August 12, 2009 Posted August 12, 2009 I have posted here about NC and how I cant do it at the moment. My EX and I are having trouble with the landlord of the flat we shared. We are exchanging emails about this. My EX was on holiday abroad for a week, she came back today. We live close to each other and the last week has been BRILLIANT. No contact and no danger of me stepping outside my door and bumping into her. However, today, she came back to London. And she emails me about the flat business. So we exchange emails. Toward the end of the exchange, we start making jokes and flirting ever so slightly and it reminds me of 5 years ago in the lead up to us going out with each other. Result#1: I am reminded of why I love/loved (not sure which) this girl. I am reminded of how she makes me laugh. I am reminded of how, in many ways, we are compatible. I am reminded of how much I miss her. Result#2: She is happy as she has friend-zoned me. She is happy as I appear not angry. She is happy. All this, from 10 emails. The only thing I love, is NC. I am addicted to her. Plus, I might love her too. GAH! T
ahotmess Posted August 12, 2009 Posted August 12, 2009 NC really is a beautiful thing. So try to limit your emails to business ONLY. No flirting/joking. Put on your poker face for her. NC helps sooo much, I'm glad that you see that....but limit your emails, otherwise you'll just keep getting hurt. Good luck.
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