SweetyBear Posted August 12, 2009 Posted August 12, 2009 My ex and I have been apart for four months. I initiated our breakup and have regretted it ever since and tried many times and in many ways to work things out. Over the course of our breakup, he says he wants to work things out, but his actions show otherwise. I have been reading on here and really took it to heart that maybe I don't deserve a second chance since I walked away from him in the first place and gave up on our relationship. So, we've had very limited contact and everytime we do, he still says he loves me and still says he wants to work things out. We have not yet seen each other and actually sat down to talk everything out, which is what both of us have been saying we want to do. Yesterday, out of the blue I get a text from him that says Hi. How ru? Miss u. I was in the waiting room of my counselor's office and didn't respond right away. Then he calls me three times in a row. So, I went outside to call him right back. He told me he was on his way to see me since he finally had a bit of time free and he was close to where I live. He wanted to know where I was so we could meet. Literally, I was in the waiting room and it was 15 minutes before my appointment. I told him where I was and that it would be about an hour and a half until I could meet with him. He turned around and went back to work. After four months of being apart, he couldn't have gotten dinner somewhere and waited for me for an hour and a half? I was very mixed in my feelings because on the one hand it's like please leave me alone if you're not going to take this seriously and on the other, I was just glad he'd finally made some kind of effort to see me even if the way he did it seems kind of messed up. My question is, based on this behavior, does he want to see me or doesn't he? I had pretty much accepted and worked through the fact that he doesn't and now this. I'm a bit confused.
leap83 Posted August 12, 2009 Posted August 12, 2009 I think your post answers your question. Yes he does. Except he would have to wait for an hour and a half for you! Put yourself in his shoes. Would you wait for him for an hour and a half? Ummmm... no. Haha. Since you say that both of you want to talk it through, why don't you give him a call, meet with him and talk about it?
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