bluesky123 Posted August 12, 2009 Posted August 12, 2009 On the verge of breaking NC, I have reflected and i know the reason's why she left. I have become more driven , went back to the gym and i know she'd be proud. She's is perfect, and if you all new what we shared it was love at first site. I just want to be held in her arms. I saw a recent picture of her and she hasn't changed a bit. Like I said in my previous post when she left me, I did not put up a fight; I let her go peacefully and gave her the utmost respect. Do you think she values this ? Maybe she is scared to contact me ?
silic0ntoad Posted August 12, 2009 Posted August 12, 2009 Dude, don't be lulled into thinking that any changes you have made will flip a switch in her head and have her screaming and scrabbling at your door. Do for you. Don't break NC. Keep control. Don't give it right back to the person who hurt you like this. It's not fair to yourself.
Devil Inside Posted August 12, 2009 Posted August 12, 2009 Do not under any circumstances break NC. DON'T EVEN THINK ABOUT IT.
Ilovecake Posted August 12, 2009 Posted August 12, 2009 Just imagine how much more she'll want you if you don't contact her. Every time you reach out you're actually driving her further away.
hoping2heal Posted August 12, 2009 Posted August 12, 2009 On the verge of breaking NC, I have reflected and i know the reason's why she left. I have become more driven , went back to the gym and i know she'd be proud. She's is perfect, and if you all new what we shared it was love at first site. I just want to be held in her arms. I saw a recent picture of her and she hasn't changed a bit. Like I said in my previous post when she left me, I did not put up a fight; I let her go peacefully and gave her the utmost respect. Do you think she values this ? Maybe she is scared to contact me ? If she wanted to contact you she would. "But maybe she's scared" Of what? Being rejected by you? That wouldn't stop her if she really, trully wanted you back in her life. She may be scared sure, but if you meant all that much to her, she would risk it.
georgia girl Posted August 13, 2009 Posted August 13, 2009 Unfortunately, the other posters are all right. Most importantly, if you ever do get back together, you want her to be the one who pursued it first. Otherwise, you're always chasing someone's affection and she's always wondering if she made the right choice. Let her come back on her own - and start chatting up some of those girls at the gym. Life's too short!
GrayClouds Posted August 13, 2009 Posted August 13, 2009 look, since she left you "become more driven , went back to the gym" so in you own words your doing better without her then with. keep doing what your doing and forget her.
TheMighty99 Posted August 13, 2009 Posted August 13, 2009 Don't break NC. Worst thing you can possibly do!
utterer of lies Posted August 13, 2009 Posted August 13, 2009 On the verge of breaking NC, I have reflected and i know the reason's why she left. I have become more driven , went back to the gym and i know she'd be proud. She's is perfect, and if you all new what we shared it was love at first site. I just want to be held in her arms. I saw a recent picture of her and she hasn't changed a bit. Like I said in my previous post when she left me, I did not put up a fight; I let her go peacefully and gave her the utmost respect. Do you think she values this ? Maybe she is scared to contact me ? Exactly, she's scared. She wants you back because you took the break-up so well. Delusions, much? Please break the NC, and write a long post afterwards about all those interesting feelings you experienced.
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